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well this is $^$^# up.
okay, heres the story.
about 4 months ago i went out with this kid.
i only when out with him for 2 months.
he was my first kiss, but we didn't really talk much. So i broke it off, because i didn't want a bad relationship, we never saw eachother.
Its four months later, and i cant stop thinking about him. i don't know why, i honestly dont know what this is about. But i guess its cause he was my first kiss.
After we broke up he was talking to me online saying he'll never find another girlfriend. I don't think he was sad,though.
I haven't talked to him since i broke up with him.
We have the same friends. But when I'm there , he wont come over. Its like he's ignoring me,avoiding me. i think he hates me. It hurts me to think that, because we were once so close. I don't know what to do anymore.
My real question is, Why do you think he's avioding me? I mean, it wasn't that serious of a relationship. Do you think he still might like me? or is he just compleatly over me? i'm so confused.
Also, how can i get over him?
thanks<3.
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If your mind is telling yourself not to get over him, don't force it. You obviously still like him...seriously listen to yourself. Kkk.. but like I doubt he's avoiding you. I mean you hurt him...so he's either sad or trying not to bother you since you broke up with him. Yea I'm not like forcing this all on you if thats what it sounds likee..but yeah. Talk to him first..since hes not gonna do it..and be like I kinda wanna give "us" another chance..if you do..but like it would kinda have to change,cause i like to be close to my boyfriendss..!
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i did the same thing except i didnt like the boy but he was my friend..i was just desparate 4 a bf and my first kiss!
you probably feel bad about breaking up with him or you miss him...but i cant tell you how u feel right.
i think he liked you..you probably meant something to him and he prolly thought things and you kinda ended that so it hit him hard,you should talk to him about it...but its your choice 2 break uo with him soo dont feel all sorry 4 him=] good luck girl
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He is avoiding you because he is so absorbed and swallowed up that he couldn't deliver what you wanted in a relationship. He didn't exactly WANT you to break up with him, and he's obviously still thinking that maybe if he plays the poor sad kid that can't find anyone to love him, you'll go back to him out of guilt. You need to realize this guy is a total wimp that can't take a break-up like a man, and you need to go find something else to do besides think about how "bad he must feel". You can feel bad for a little bit, it's only natural, but after that you need to move on and if he doesn't want to talk to you, that's his problem.
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