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guy/sex.
i have a huge crush on this guy but i denied it to everyone including him. Well Em, him and one of our friends were hanging and at the end of the night he was bringing me home and we had sex. Having sex with him just increased my feelings for him. I'm afraid to tell him that i want to be with him. I don't want him to think that i like him because of just the sex because thats not the situation at all. I liked him before we had sex, sex just made it stronger.
how do i tell him? should i tell him?
thanks guys.
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Ok.
Lesson one on guys. We do not think that way.
If I slept with a girl, and she later told me that she liked me, this could not be anything but a good thing to me.
Now. There are guys who use people for sex. If the guy you have a crush on is one of those guys, there is absolutely nothing you can do about it, and so telling him will just have him show his inner asshole and you will be pissed off, and crush pretty much over.
If he isnt one of those guys, hes probably going to respond positively to it. He liked you enough to sleep with you. If you offer him more hes probably going to jump at the chance. Though, I wouldnt reccomend sleeping with him again until you tell him. That starts to complicate things.
You should ask him to come over and watch a movie. You should kiss him, and you should tell him that you like him.
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ok well you need to just talk to him and tell him the exact same thing that you said earlier that you liked him before the sex its just now you feel really strong about it you dnt know maybe he thinks the same waybout you but you will never know nless you tlk to him first so just go and tlk to him but make sure that you tell him that you had feelings for him before the sex
well i hope i heled if you have any other ???'s jst ask me
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You can tell him but I don't know that it will make much of a difference. You can't take it back of course but once you give it, he will continue to use you for sex but may not make you his girlfriend.
Tell him if you want but oops. Don't do that again if you want something lasting. :)
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Hi, in my opinion, yau should tell him.
How, is to tell him face-to-face that yau liked him before the sex but didn't want him to know because yau was scared of what he or his mates might say. Now yau think the sex just made yaur feelings alot stronger.
Good luck! xx
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Oh what a tangled web we weave sometimes.
Tell him if you want, but just be careful that he knows that you don't like him just for sex, and if he likes you too, it can't be just for sex either. It has to be a genuine connection.
For future referance, it might not be the best idea to have sex with the guy you claim to not like. :/
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