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Question Posted Monday November 12 2007, 2:57 am

Ok i went to the mall with some of my friends and some of these girls from the school i go to (cause i went to one school and had to switch) saw me and were pointing and laughing at me and my friends and i didnt know why and my friends were yelling at them and telling them to stop and stuff but yeah does anyone know why they might have been doing this and by the way i've never talked to any of these girls before but i do have some classes with them

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S_C answered Tuesday November 13 2007, 7:25 pm:
How could we possibly tell you what is going on in the mind of people we don't know? Think about it for a second. You tell us that a bunch of girls that you don't hang out at were laughing at you and your friends; next you ask us why...

Hm, there are SO many possibilities here.
You had something in your teeth, your hair was messed up, your dress was tucked into your underwear, they don't like you and found some idiotic reason to make fun of you for humor purposes, etc.

Do you see how insane it is to ask complete strangers why someone would make fun of you.

I'm not saying it's morally okay, but it is human nature to judge others. People with low self-esteem can boost their self-esteem by hurting other people to make themselves feel good. I'm not really sure how that works, but it does.

There is NO possible way for anyone other than the people laughing at you to know why you were being laughed at. If it bothers you that much then don't be afraid to politely confront them and ask them what their problem is!

Also, next time, don't stoop down to their level and yell back and make fun of them. It's petty and immature. Making fun of others won't get you anywhere in life and it is best that you learn that lessen sooner rather than later.

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ImHere2MakeAdifference answered Tuesday November 13 2007, 12:06 pm:
All girls tend to be bitches at times, but then you have the ones, that have there own little clicks and they feel there better then everyone else and they walk around makeing fun of people and laughing. And thats it, there bitches.Can't do anything about it. Let them talk shit, just Don't let it bother you. But I would for sure confront all of them and be like do you have a problem with me, just to show them your not afriad, that way they wont start saying, how you cant stick up for yourself and stuff..


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