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so i'm going to give my guy a blow job for the first time and he's going to return and such. i'm really really nervous.. so first off, is it normal to be nervous? and second, i dont really know what to do so does it like "come natural?"
please help, and thanks in advance.
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Yes, it's normal to be nervous, especially when doing things your first time. Since we can't post "how to's", look here:
Thousands of sites to choose from to to get a better understanding of what to do.
Also, it would be nice of your boyfriend to point you in the right direction, by telling you what feels good as you do it.
and be prepared incase he ejaculates.
Really, don't worry about it. and remember, noone's making you do this, so if you decide you aren't ready, I'm sure your boyfriend wouldn't mind if you put it on hold.
Best of luck anyway.
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Of course its normal to be nervous. you need to be sure your ready for this before proceeding. You need to understand that giving a blow job may take the guy a while to come, you may lose breathe but remember you can always alternate between using your mouth and hand. Its your choice whether you spit or swallow, every guys come tastes different, sometime it can taste really bad so just be prepared. It can sometimes get very messy so you need to be prepared for that too. Just a little hint using your tongue to play with your boy's penis will be a huge tease.
Live in the moment and enjoy it :)
Good Luck xx
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Its natural to be nervous about anything you havent done before. Especially where intimacy is concerned.
We cant give actual procedural advice. Just google "blowjob instructions" and you'll find tons of pages.
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