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i can't believe this!!!!


Question Posted Thursday November 8 2007, 10:20 am

ok so me and my boyfriend just broke up for the 3rd time!!!!!! it is driving me insane i was in love with him!!!! and all of my friends are saying just get over you are a pretty girl and you will get another boyfriend, but the saying is that you never get over your first love, and that scaries me!!!!! because when me adn my ex broke up before i would date a guy for a week and then break up with him all of a sudden because i stopped liking him! and my ex was the same way!! but now he is going to ask out my best friend(Tressa) and i don't know that just drives me crazy!!!!!! i dont know if it is because i am jealious, or it is because i know that she will hurt him because she moved but she lies to the school saying that she lives at her old house just so she can go to our school! and everytime she gets a bf(at our school) she cheats on them with another guy down where her new house is!!! and i dont wat to see my ex get hurt!!!! should i tell him???? but then i don't know if i should get involve with that
i just dont wat to see him get hurt!!!!!!!
HELP!!!!!


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Elle2619 answered Friday November 9 2007, 3:49 am:
I believe you should talk to him and explain how you feel and what you know about how your friend treats guys but in doing this is may cause complications with Tressa so you need to think about that. You could also talk to her and express your feelings as in that it may cause problems between you and her. If you tell your ex about your friend cheating he may think that your just trying to stop him asking her out cause you like him etc. It sound as though you either still love him or that you want to keep a good friendship with him. I have to say that after breaking up 3 times maybe its time to realise its not meant to be. As for you will never get over your first love there is plenty of other fish in the sea and yes, he will most likely still remain in your heart as a fond memory, It will take time for you to get over him so just take each day as it comes :)

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heather101 answered Thursday November 8 2007, 8:40 pm:
Well I don't know why you guys broke up, but time will heal it. don't try to move on right away, at least that's hwo it is for me. It's better if I take my time and heal from the break up and then don't go looking for guys. The right one will come along one day. As far as you telling him about you best friend and how she might cheat on him. Hah.I so wouldn't bothe rtelling him, cuz for one major reason he is asking out your best friend..now that is pretty low and let him learn on his own. you telling him probbaly wont make it any better, he'll probably just say you're making it up because you are jealous. Just let him learn for himself and as far as you just hang in there. You will be ok over time.
good luck to you.

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