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weird attraction
ok i have a boyfriend who i LOVE ! last year i met this guy who was new to school and talked to him a few times in class. recently, ive gotten back in touch with him and weve been talkin on myspace. i hardly ever see him in school anymore but i did today. i had this weird attraction to him. i dont think hes that hott, hes not ugly but idk just not my style in guys looks-wise, but hes cool! how can i get over the weird attraction? hes one of my friends so i dont wanna avoid him. and dont say 'oh just think of your boyfriend instead and how much you love him!', because its not that im falling for this guy, im just attracted. but it feels weird. any advice??
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Just don't worry about it. It's perfectly fine to be attracted to other guys if you're in a relationship, as long as you don't do anything about it or actually seriously start falling for them (that could get messy). In the mean time, just treat him like one of your friends, and focus on whatever things you normally focus on.
If it feels too weird, you could always try bringing around lots of other friends when you two hang out and have large, group discussions. As well, you could try mentioning your boyfriend a lot around him, and being careful not to flirt/tease him just so he doesn't get the wrong idea. It may even be useful to look out for his lovelife, so that you are taking these attraction feelings and doing something useful with them (getting others to appreciate it). Look at the attraction objectively, because that's all that it is (or you may have other problems).
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ok the previous answerer was was a retard who just wastes his time screwing with Q's. its may feel weird but its not quite. thats happened to me several times. i'd just be attracted to this guy who wasn't like totally hott but.. there was something about them i loved that i couldn't explain. and i find that sexy. lol maybe you just have the same thing.
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