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best friend..
alright so me and this girl are really tight and we spent basically the whole summer together and we just get along so well and we were just complete best friends. now she's always hanging out with this other girl, let's call her jillian, and she blows me off to hang out with jillian, which i ask her if she wants to do something first but then right after jillian asks her if she wants to do something and she says yes. we never hang out anymore and i try to make days in my schedule were we can hang out but then she says "no sorry i cant, im 'babysitting'" but then i see her away message and stuff and its like "hanging out with jillian" its just really annoying. i have nothing against jillian, she's a cool girl we're kind of friends but, i just want my old best friend back...what should i do?
15/f
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I'm going through the same thing with my best friend, she has all these new friends that she made from cheer and stuff and like we were SO close in the summer time like we would seriously hang out every chance we got and stuff and never get tired of eachother,and tell eachother everything, but then she made new friends from doing cheerleading and she started to hang out with all her cheer friends and she would blow me off all the time and leave me in the dust, and like we used to tell eachother everything, but then she barely would barely tell me anything, and if she did tell me somthing, she would tell her cheer friends first and tell them every detail and then only give me a breif description about it. but then i got sick and tired of it so i talked to her, and i told her basically everything i was feeling, and then yeah lemme tell you it was pretty emotional hahah but yeah it made things alot better between us, so talking can do alot. Talking is the key. =]
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I find it kind of sad that your friend lied about babysitting to hang out with "Jillian" it really shows how she knows it bothers you.
I'd confront her, just tell her that you feel you're being replaced and you're feeling kinda hurt by it. Since I don't know her personality, I don't know how she'd respond to it. If she gets very defensive, maybe she just had felt like she wanted a change, or if she's sympathetic, maybe she sees that she has disregarded your feelings and will hopefully apologize and you guys can hang out again.
Best of luck!
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