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not invited. this really sucks :(


Question Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 4:31 pm

okay well there is this guy named joe, and he is one of my friends. hes having a party over the weekend (for his b-day) but i wasnt invited :(
we are friends and we talk and everything, but i dont understand why he didnt invite me. it makes it even worse that he invited a WHOLE BUNCH of people, and not me. what do i do? (and i cant just do something else with my friends that night, because all of them are going to his party)
his girlfriend (one of my close friends) asked me if i was going and i told her that i wasnt invited to it & she was also surprised that i wasnt invited. she said that she was going to ask him why/if he invited me... if he does end up inviting me, wont it be like a pity invite?


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LM answered Wednesday November 7 2007, 9:29 pm:
Nope. I forgot to invite my best friend to a party when I first sent out invitations. I talked to her so much & planned the party with her I forgot to formally give her an invite.

Since you're friends, its highly unlikely that it'd be a pity invite. He could have truly forgotten.


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thelaura answered Wednesday November 7 2007, 7:50 pm:
Were the invites proper invitations? On paper? If they weren't, he may have genuinely forgot to tell you. Don't jump to any conclusions just yet - try and find out if he's realized he hasn't invited you.
It's a bit odd he would invite everyone but you.
You won't know if it's a pity invite until you find the reason why he didn't include you.
but as I've said, don't worry about it, because he may have just forgot. There will be reasons and you will get to know about them soon. :)

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