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i want her boyfriend.
theres this guy, he likes his girlfriend a lot, but she totally doesnt appriciate him. He wants to spend time with her, but she says hes too "clingy." I was talking to the girl the other night, and she was saying that she liked someone else. And, i have a goodddd feeling they're going to break up. i dont know this kid too well. I talk to him everyday, and he'll come up to me and talk to me whenever he sees me, But what can i do to make him like me even more? I dont want to go out with him right after be breaks up with this girl. I have the urge to interfere with their relationship, and make them breakup, but that would be so wrong, and id feel bad. But, what can i do to make me more? and maybe his girlfriend a little less? :]
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Just don't.
Seriously, don't bother. Be his friend while you can be his friend. Be more when you can be something more (ie Not Yet.)
Fight the urge to interfere. It's okay to have those feelings. It's not okay to act on them.
It doesn't sound like their relationship is going to last, but that is a decision he needs to come to on his own. In the end, he'll only resent your meddling. I guarantee it.
If he is worth this kind of obessing then he is worth respectfully waiting for.
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Reality, you are not making yourself more by acting this way you are acting like less of a good person.. How do you know that she does not appreciate him? Is this your own assesment or is this the truth. If you dont wantto go out with him why would you want them to break-up. Do you only want what you can not have. That is both unfair to yourself, this guy, and his girl friend. You need to be this guy's friend and that is all, and maybe he will eventually see you in a new light.
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Nothing. Unless you want to come off as a skank or something as equally lame, you do nothing. They have to break up on their own accord. If he likes his girlfriend alot, what makes you think he likes you? Boys can have friendships with girls that are purely just. friends.
If they do break up, give him some time for his wounds to heal, then if you still want him, let him know.
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If he likes his girlfriend alot, what makes you think he's going to start liking you. You need to seriously think about what you are doing here. It doesn't matter what his girlfriend says. It's actually none of your business (even if she did tell you) and you should definitely not interfere with their relationship. If you think they're going to break up soon, then let nature run it's course.
If they break up, only then should you start to try and get to know this boy more and start flirting etc.
It's not nice to try and compete with his girlfriend while he is with her. You wouldn't like it if someone was doing it to you.
Hold on for a while and see what happens.
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