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Okay, so im 15 year old female. I have a boyfriend. He's so nice. He is always complimenting me and he always makes me feel really special. Here's the thing, I have a friend who likes him also. She flirts non-stop! I've talked to her about it - twice! I've asked her to stop and she said she would. She said she would never do anything to hurt me. But, she still looks at him really funny and gives me the 'angry eye' everytime he holds me. I've talked to him about it as well. He didn't really say much though. So, this is what i need help with: what do I do now? this is bugging me and i have a feeling that my friend might be trying to take him away. I know that sounds childish, but it's how i feel. I almost feel like if I don't do or say something, she'll win. I just don't want to lose him. We've been going out for a while now. And I seriously feel like there is a possiblity of falling in love. I mean, I really like this guy. But why is my friend getting involved. She likes him, and she is known for hitting on guys until they are hers...and then she dumps them. Oh great, I'm so lost and confused. I feel so weak. (link)
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There are two things that might be happening. Either she is not your friend because a true friend would both respect your space, privacy, and feelings. If your friend is not willing to respect you, it may be time for you to end this relationship. This almost has nothing to do with your boyfriend because it shows what kind of person she may be. If she is willing to disregard your request to back off your boyfriend, it may be time for you to let go.
The other thing that mightbe happening is that you may be involved with this guy that it is making you see things. Love makes people do silly and sometimes crazy things. Your imagination be overactive and if your boyfriend has not noticed this behavior, maybe it is love and this is making you act and think irrationally.
Remember you can not control the actions of others. If she is going to flirt, she is going to flirt.
You also need to remember that you are strong, and being a strong woman is both a turn on to men, and often will shut women who are disrespecting you down.
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theres this guy, he likes his girlfriend a lot, but she totally doesnt appriciate him. He wants to spend time with her, but she says hes too "clingy." I was talking to the girl the other night, and she was saying that she liked someone else. And, i have a goodddd feeling they're going to break up. i dont know this kid too well. I talk to him everyday, and he'll come up to me and talk to me whenever he sees me, But what can i do to make him like me even more? I dont want to go out with him right after be breaks up with this girl. I have the urge to interfere with their relationship, and make them breakup, but that would be so wrong, and id feel bad. But, what can i do to make me more? and maybe his girlfriend a little less? :] (link)
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Reality, you are not making yourself more by acting this way you are acting like less of a good person.. How do you know that she does not appreciate him? Is this your own assesment or is this the truth. If you dont wantto go out with him why would you want them to break-up. Do you only want what you can not have. That is both unfair to yourself, this guy, and his girl friend. You need to be this guy's friend and that is all, and maybe he will eventually see you in a new light.
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