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I've told her twice. But she still makes me feel uneasy.
Okay, so im 15 year old female. I have a boyfriend. He's so nice. He is always complimenting me and he always makes me feel really special. Here's the thing, I have a friend who likes him also. She flirts non-stop! I've talked to her about it - twice! I've asked her to stop and she said she would. She said she would never do anything to hurt me. But, she still looks at him really funny and gives me the 'angry eye' everytime he holds me. I've talked to him about it as well. He didn't really say much though. So, this is what i need help with: what do I do now? this is bugging me and i have a feeling that my friend might be trying to take him away. I know that sounds childish, but it's how i feel. I almost feel like if I don't do or say something, she'll win. I just don't want to lose him. We've been going out for a while now. And I seriously feel like there is a possiblity of falling in love. I mean, I really like this guy. But why is my friend getting involved. She likes him, and she is known for hitting on guys until they are hers...and then she dumps them. Oh great, I'm so lost and confused. I feel so weak.
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There are two things that might be happening. Either she is not your friend because a true friend would both respect your space, privacy, and feelings. If your friend is not willing to respect you, it may be time for you to end this relationship. This almost has nothing to do with your boyfriend because it shows what kind of person she may be. If she is willing to disregard your request to back off your boyfriend, it may be time for you to let go.
The other thing that mightbe happening is that you may be involved with this guy that it is making you see things. Love makes people do silly and sometimes crazy things. Your imagination be overactive and if your boyfriend has not noticed this behavior, maybe it is love and this is making you act and think irrationally.
Remember you can not control the actions of others. If she is going to flirt, she is going to flirt.
You also need to remember that you are strong, and being a strong woman is both a turn on to men, and often will shut women who are disrespecting you down.
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It's a case of who and or what is more important. Tell her that you have had enough of her flirting with your boyfriend, getting angry you're with him etc. Tell her that you demand she respects you and your relationship with him or to shove off (in nicer language than that).
Be firm with her so she gets you mean business. Your boyfriend obviously wants to be with you and not her. The other boys she made her own were weak and easily led. Your boyfriend can see through her and obviously isn't interested. He'd be with her by now if he was.
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