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Better or Worse?
16/m
I have this friend. Well, now we're more than friends because she asked me out today. and i said yes. I really really like this girl, but im afraid things are getting awkward between us, and because of it she'll break up with me. and this is only the first day...
Im not sure if maybe im just being paranoid or something, but the only way we knew each other was because we made fun of one another and joked around. now that we're more than just friends, I don't know what should change and what shouldn't.
the point is, i really like this girl, but i dont really know HOW to be her boyfriend. i dont want us to be ruined. and i dont want us to break up either... thats why this is confusing me.
anyway, here's my main question: is this just the type of thing we will get used to? or is this never going to work out between us? PLEASE help.
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Be yourself. The more you act awkward around her, the more she will pick up on it and feel awkward her self. Just act the way you did before you became a "couple" and you will be fine. If your friendship was based on humor, then that is what she sees in you and likes about you, so continue on with the jokes and stuff of the like.
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I think you two will be fine if both of you have feelings for each other, which is obvious. So what I recommend is talking to her, asking questions about her -- to get to know her better. And in return, I'm sure she'll do the same with you. Try to offer her information about you too that's really important to you (people, places, things you've been through, etc). This should help you both, because the more you know about someone, the more comfortable you become with each other. With decreases the awkwardness.
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You're stressing out too much.
Be yourself. She asked you out. That means that she likes who you are.
Conversation is one of the many ways into a womans heart. Ask her about herself. Things you dont know, like what she wants to do with her life, what she likes doing. Find something you have in common and talk it to death.
Its a day old. If you are stressing out about it this much then it WILL die. No girl wants to be with a guy who is a nervous wreck around her. Like I said, remember that she asked you out. She already likes you. That means it is no longer your job to make her like you.
Its your job not to mess it up.
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