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relatonship problems
im dating this guy, and hes really nice, but i dont really like him much anymore. and i know this other guy, and hes really nice. but we met online and i barley know him, and i think im falling for him. me and my guy have been fighting alot, and me and the other guy live in totally different states....what do you think i should do?
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If your current relationship isn't working, or you've lost feelings for him, the best thing to do would be to end it and not leave it any longer. The longer you leave it, the more hurt he'll be.
I doubt anyone here can tell you what to do with the other guy. But personally, If I were you, I wouldn't bother. I don't mean to sound harsh, but long distance relationships are really hard work. Not to mention you don't know him in real life. People are different in real life to what they are online.
If you don't want to salvage your current relationship, perhaps you should try being single for a while to see what you really want. Don't go from a relationship and jump straight into a long distance one. It's not wise.
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I can't tell you what to do... But I can point out the obivous and hope you make the best dicision for yourself and your circumstances. So I'll start by stating that you are in a relationship that you are starting to question and you're not feeling like you use to twords the guy. You're not 100% into it, because if you were you wouldn't be being swayed by this new online guy. Secondly, the guy online is purely just that. A guy ONLINE. You have the comfort of not being hurt as much because you don't have to deal with him on a day-to-day basis or confront him face to face. That can both be good for some insecurities, but bad because everyone needs affection. The affection would just be cute notes or emails..not a hug or kiss.
You didn't include your age, so I don't know if your young, in your late teens, 20's, or older. That could have a lot to do with your decision too. Because if you are older, you could eventually meet your cyber prince charming.
Sometimes not have the reality of a guy to argue with in person sounds like the better option, but you have to think of which one your heart is more into. And which one you can just keep as a friend-if that.
Hope this sheds some clarity and light on your situation. Make a good choice-you deserve to be happy!
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