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Boys and Friends
Okay i'm going out with this guy. i have been for six months. i really like him. we had plans to go to a mutual friends birthday party on saturday. on thursday he decided he wanted to go see his friend instead. i happen to hate this friend of his to the point where his very name makes me furious. regardless of that fact, and the fact that i want him to come with me to the party i told him to go to that friends instead. i tried to make it seem like that's what i really wanted him to do, but he could tell i was angry. how mad do i really have a right to be. i want to yell at him, but at the same time i told him to go. i really don't know what to do.
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I personally, don't believe you have much right to be mad. Think of it this way, put yourself in his position. Say you want to go see your best friend, you wouldn't want him telling you not to go just because he doesn't like her, right? Exactly. Though I do think you have a right to be mad because he changed plans at the last minute, but other than that, I think you should let him have whatever friends he wants, and the same with you.
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Hmmm.
Wait, does he KNOW that you don`t like this person? If he did, then of course you have a reason to be mad! Plus, it`s kind of rude to change plans suddenly like that. Personally, I`d be a little mad too.
You guys must care about each other if you`ve been going out for that amount of time, so he probably cares alot about the way you feel. Just try talking about it to him. If he asks why you don`t like the kid, just flat out tell him. He can`t be mad at you for your opinion & he can`t force you to like one of his friends. He won`t want you to feel uncomfortable & he really won`t want you mad at him. So chances are, he`ll go to the party with you.
But if you don`t want to cause any arguments or tension in your relationship, just talk it out with a friend or just make other plans that day to take your mind off of it.
Good luck!
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First off, you can't tell someone they can't hang out with their friends. it makes you look like not a good person. Second, you have to tell him what you think of his friend. He may not like what he hears but he's got to know the truth.
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