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F/15 Dirty talk?
sometimes when my boyfriend and I talk on the phone he wants me to talk sexy or dirty to him. Is that normal? I did it once or twice but i hate doing it because i don't know what to say or how to start off or anything. WHY DOES HE DO THIS? he told me that him and his friend called one of those hotlines and it was funny but im not a sex hotline. I want to make him happy but like this?? PLus he doesnt do it for me! So why should I?! and let's say i do "talk dirty" what do i say??
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He does it because hes horny and when you do it turns him on. That answer is simple.
Unfortunately, theres no real way for me to provide you with a practical example. Just not appropriate. Phone sex is generally talking about what you would like to do to the person.
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Yeah, I'd say it's pretty normal. Most guys love it when their girlfriend talks dirty to them. And it can be kinda fun... it's kinda cool to know that you can get a guy all horny and excited just by saying a bunch of silly stuff! Sort of gives you a power rush, ya know? Ha ha! If you feel uncomfortable because you don't know what to say, then follow the advice of the person below this and google some stuff to say. And then don't wait for him to ask you... just say something out of the blue, and he'll love it! Once you've started doing it, it will become easier. But if you're uncomfortable with it because you don't like talking dirty, then you don't have to do it.
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First thing's first: If YOU don't want to participate in it, DO NOT do it. Noone has to do something they don't want to do, especially if it makes them feel uncomfortable.
If you do actually want to do it, but don't know what to say, get him to start if he wants it so badly. Make a joke of it or something and say "How come you never do it for me! You start and I'll follow"
I just did a quick Google search for you and these came up:
* "What are you wearing... or not wearing?"
* "Your voice makes me __________."
* "I love when you put your __________ on/in my __________. "
* "The next time I see you, I'm going to __________."
* "Is that a cell phone in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?"
Find lots more here:
Remember, noone's making you do this. If it bothers you that much and you don't want to do it, just explain to him. He is your boyfriend. He will understand.
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He shouldn't be asking you to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable. Tell him that you do not want to do this and he should understand why. Your boyfriend and his mate are just wasting money calling hotlines and the 'girls' (picture a middle-aged mum feeding her youngster in her slippers whilst on the phone scenario - no offence to anyone who does this for a living) are being paid to talk dirty and to keep the guys on the line for as long as possible.
If you do want to do this for him, then he should reciprocate in kind for you. Stick to what makes you happy and don't give in to any pressure or blackmail. All the best.
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