my best friend, claims she hates this one girl. and this girl always calls her and wants to hangout with her. and i'm fine with that. its just. whenever i make new friends, i always include my old friends. yano? and she doesnt. she never does. and actually, i know this girl. quite well actually. i've known her for the past 4 years. so why doesnt she include me? i always include her with my other friends. i mean i'd understand, if me and her were just friends. but this is my best friend im talking about. so why doesnt she EVER include me?? i'm not a mean person. i just don't understand.
Debateist answered Monday October 22 2007, 6:50 am: okay I no exactly where you are comming from here cause my bf is the exact same and what I did was I spoke to her about it !! I no this is nerve racking but I did and you no she wasnt angry or confrontational she listened and in the end we came out even better friends than before, I still havent met the said person but thats gd cause now the person is treatin ma bf like dirt and I am not best pleased any way. How to do this is to sit her down and just explain that you would like to meet with her and her new friend however it may be that she doesnt want to lose you to this new friend and that is why she is keepin her from u so tread and choose your words carefully!!
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