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love life confused
im a guy im 13. i like this girl alot and i told her last school year on valentines day in a love letter and i dont know if she likes me and i did ask her in the letter if she liked me but never said a thing. i talked to her this year and i asked her if she read it she said yesthen i asked her what she thought she said something but it was realy realy quite it sounded like a hamber siziling then i said say something even if its stupid which now i think was stupid but she laughed then i told her why cause
i didnt want to annoy her then now we hardly talk or never but every time we see ecother i look at her then the looks at me but she doesnt talk to me any more but she talks to this other boy alot but i think their friends cause every one thinks hes not straight and he agreed i think but her friends like sheild her away from me and my friends sorta do the same does me like me or does she hate me but to nice to say that???????????????im also shy and when im near her its cool and shes beautiful smart and everything but i dont know what to say cause she knows i like her but i dont know if she likes me and its hard to tell can you give me signs and tell me what do i think she might be shy toidont know can you u tell if a girl is shy and tell me signs if she is what should i do ?go for it and ask her and ask her for email address or just forget about it
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sorry she dosent like yOu if she was interested she would have responded your letter. for gett about her thiers plenty of fish in the sea.
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no, she does not like you.
eh, thats fucking harsh, sorry. dont worry happens. and no she does not hate you. she just isnt attracted.
if people dont respond to loveletters its because they dont want to. she mumbles something in response because shes embarassed. she laughs because its flattering. if shy girls want to get something going they send friends. you are trying to torture your brain to find a reality in which she is in to you, but no can do.
at the point you are with her you are pretty much sorted out. does not kill you makes you tougher so move on.
for the future:
its no use to tell a girl that you are interested in her before she is interested in you, because by then you are forcing her to make a decision.
girls rely alot more on personality for attraction than we do, its a slower progress for them. if she sees you as a cool fun guy who can stand up for himself and wont get clingy and can do alot of things your chances are much better. You are very young, you have still alot of personality developement ahead of you.
good luck
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oh one more thing. asking for a telephone number or email is a thing you do with girls you meet in clubs or anywhere else, just in order to make plans with them later. you shouldnt like that and try to do as little of that as possible because this is more difficult than asking them in person so in your case it would be better to ask her out (or even better her and your friends). anyways, only do that if you are happy about crashing and burning, but I suggest you rather get your share of emotional pain in situations where theres still chance.
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Go for it and ask for her phone number, not her email.
I mean, anybody can write email when you are just talking words on a screen, but if she gives you her phone number, then she wants to actually talk to you, which is what you want.
There really is no sense in beating around the bush- you've already gone that route and got nowhere.
ygs-29/f
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