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ok so a few months ago i hooked up with this guy, [yess we had sex] but we havent realy talked since. and now im like dating his friend which is all perfectly fine and going great..but i have this strange ackwardness around the other guy[the one i hooked up with]. like when i hear his name or when i see him. and i go to school with him so i see him quite a bit. my question is why do i feel this way?? i just want it to go away. i hate the feeling! and also how can i get rid of it. help if you can. thnx.
xOalmaOx answered Thursday October 4 2007, 9:22 pm: I think you just feel awkward around him because of the fact that you guys hooked up and now you're going out with his friend, making it almost more awkward. You'll get over this odd feeling after a while. I know how you feel, most girls feel that way when they've hooked up with a guy or even liked a guy but it didn't go anywhere. If you just don't fuss over it as much, and let it be ; that awkwardness should just fade way. Hope I helped & good luck with your relationship =] [ xOalmaOx's advice column | Ask xOalmaOx A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Thursday October 4 2007, 8:34 pm: That happens alot, and it's going to stay like that for a while. It's because you remember it and probly can't get out of your head, esp if you had sex. It's hard to get rid of that feelings you just have to let it fade on it's own and let time pass. ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
torresjasmyne answered Thursday October 4 2007, 12:06 pm: It's because you have that memory of what happened and now you are dating his friend which... and you realy like him which makes it harder to forget which why it's weird [ torresjasmyne's advice column | Ask torresjasmyne A Question ]
scootermclisle answered Thursday October 4 2007, 12:05 pm: I don't think it's possible to get rid of the awkward feeling, because it's an awkward situation. You had a one night stand with this guy, and now you see him all the time. Not to mention that you are now dating his friend. Ughh, yeah you're just going to wait until the feeling goes away on its own. [ scootermclisle's advice column | Ask scootermclisle A Question ]
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