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i need a bf
15/f
i go to a school where all of the guys are either gay, or straight+preppy+taken+committed to their partner.
This one guy from Germany (boarding school) is like really nice and he's a dork and he's not attractive so that means he's probably available. The problem is- i'm a freshman and he's a junior or senior (not sure which) and he seems like he's interested b/c he always says hi to me and stuff and he knows my name and one time he came and sat by me at lunch but then he moved away :(.
Idk... I'm so shy and I never know what to say when i see him... I have no problem with the typical "hi, how are you" thing but... I have a social phobia so i don't know what to do.
Please, don't say anything about my social phobia because i'm already getting help for that and this quesion is about the BOY.
How can I get him to want to ask me out?
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Flirting in one way or another usually comes naturally to both sexes, so don't worry.
Show interest in him! When you see him say hi, smile, or wave. Make eye contact whenever you can. Talk to him whenever possible (but don't make it seem like your stalking him!) Talk about things that are relevant to both of you, such as whats going on at school. Laugh at his jokes, smirk, bat your eye lashes, make your conversations a little "suggestive" if you know what I mean. If he's smart, he'll get the hint. If not, just tell him!
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Well, why don't you ask him out? Maybe he is just as shy as you are.
Listen, if you sit around hoping some guy will take the hint and ask you out, you may just be waiting for a long, long time. You may just miss the opportunity all together by waiting, because maybe somebody else will ask him out before he gets the hint.
Yah, rejection sucks when it happens, but always remember it is their loss, not yours.
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