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2 boys..what to do ?


Question Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 5:56 pm

okay. this could get a little confusing. I liked this boy (were calling him L) well i liked L and he liked me back. WE liked eachother all over the summer but never hung out because something would always happen. THen at the beginning of the school year i saw him at the scrimage game and he seemed pretty excited to see me. Then we were supposed to hang out the next weekend and we never did. I have barely talked to him since then and we are in about our 3rd month of school. NOw their is this other boy (were calling me E) when i met him he was going out with best friend. BUt they broke up about a year ago and he cant stand her now but he likes me. and he likes me alot. he tells me all the time how he wished i would just give him a chance and i just dont know if i like him that way. and i'm scared of going out with him would make me loose L..even though i dont think i really have L anymore. I am just so confused on what to do.
any help will be amazing ! =]


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scootermclisle answered Wednesday October 3 2007, 12:44 pm:
You don't have to decide now. The worst thing you can do is to make a rash decision. Just be honest with both of them. Which one do you like more? If you like L more, ask him what is happening between you straight up. You need to know what's going on. If you like E, stop being afraid and go for him.

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday October 2 2007, 11:43 pm:
Well, if you like them both, you go with who has the time to actually spend with you in order to make a relationship.
If you don't really like this one guy, then you need to try to be with the one you do like. You may have to actually pursue him. Go out of your way to talk to him. When you are supposed to hang out, try to see that it actually happens.
If these things are not possible now, they won't be possible to do if you are dating. If you can't hang out together and talk to one another, then there is no way for the relationship to have a chance to grow.

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