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Just joking.


Question Posted Tuesday October 2 2007, 5:50 pm

Okay people I hang out with, just like companions are **joking** about me and its pissing me off.
They talk about my weight(yes im fat) my neck (which is black) and if they'd go out with me or not. Yeahh there guys. They also do it to my BBF Becky. But shes not fat and doesnt have a black neck... they said they'd go out with her if she was skinners blonde and has less achne. But the main person who does this is a gorrilla!
Im tired of it! I have anger management problems I dont know how to conduct my emotions in a good way and the next time he or any of them say something im gunna haul off and smack a HOE! They get all surprised when im upset.. and im tired of them acting like im not even there.
Ive tried breaking away, but they fucking fallow me! Just like moths to light!
Err anything would be good, because I dont want ISS..


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nickie1013 answered Wednesday October 3 2007, 9:58 pm:
I'm so sorry they're treating you like that. :(

My advice is to just break it off with them, and make it clear that you are. They might follow you for a little while but if you stick to your guns and ignore them they'll lose interest. Trust me, I had a few friends like that that I unfortunately kept for too long and now I wish I had just left them when I had the chance. I hope this helps!

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scootermclisle answered Wednesday October 3 2007, 12:45 pm:
Don't let people talk about you badly, EVER. You should get mad at them; they deserve it.

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday October 2 2007, 10:52 pm:
Well, you definitely need to tell them that their comments are rude and inappropriate. Let them know if that is the best subject matter they can come up with to talk about women, best of luck to them in the dating game.
If you don't want to hang out with them, don't try to break away- DO. If they follow you, make sure it is damn clear to them that you DO NOT wish to be graced with their presence any longer.

Or, you can get them at their own game. You and Becky sit around and talk about them in the same manner. Maybe they will either A) get the point, or B) get lost.

ygs-29/f

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