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boys who ruin friendships(sry its long)
ok so here we go thiers this boy and i like him just i dont know if i really like him or just like flirting with him, my bestfriend also likes him and the problem is, he liked me alot and now likes her and im kind of jealous, but just recently he said he didnt like me anymore so i was like ok cool whatever. i told my bestfriend to go for it,i recently just got really heart broken by a guy who ive we'll basically call it dating for about a year, he told me he wanted to end what we had cause he doesnt want a girlfriend.but im super in love with him and dont know what to do. so i went back to the one boy who i told me bestfriend(who means everything to me btw)to go for,and we were pretty much pulling hi mback and forth. but i dont know what to do becasue we got in a huge fight today about him, and we both say no matter what we will neevr let a boy in the middle of our friendship but somehow i see that happening. any ways she just said she was going to stop going for him though cause one he used to like me and two she doesnt want to hurt our friendship, but i feel really abd and i told her not to do that because she was on my top list of always being my number one and that we will always be be bestfriend no matter what, i trold her i wanted her to be happy and she should go after him, but she wont cause she thinks im going to be jealous. i dont know what to do and i really need help, lately me and her hav'nt been getting along and i dont want to lose her forever, because she really means everything to me! she is my bestfriend and the only one i can count on to be thier for me for everything. please help
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If he likes her more then there isn't a lot you can do about it but accept it. It doesn't have to ruin your friendship. If seeing them together bothers you, then you just don't hang out with them when they are together. Make it easier on yourself. As soon as you find another guy to spend your time with, their relationship won't bother you that much.
You do need to find yourself another guy. Don't sit around and dwell on this one. :)
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Both of you should just be close friends with this guy. Neither one of you should date him or kiss him, etc. But you can both get to know him. Just talk to your friend about it again.
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