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to give up or not to give up??!!!!!!!


Question Posted Friday September 28 2007, 5:59 pm

so thiers this boy.....his name is spencer, and well weve ...you might as well say have been dating. for a little bit now, and ive liked him since last year and he likes me. only problem he doesntwant a girlfriend or any kind of buuild up to one, so recently he told me her wanted to end what we had going and wait because he probably wasnt going to want a girlfriend until next year. i dont know wha tto do if i should wait or not. i really like him, a matter a fact im in love with him, and he makes me really happy. he says he doesnt know what it is he feels for me, because hes not sure if this is love because he doenst know what love is. in other words he wants top say he loves me but isnt sure. im just so confussed. and he really hurt me the other day when he ended what we do have my bestfriend keeps on getting mad at me cause i keep wanting to go talk to him and go up to him but she knows i just keep getting hurt. so what do i do?

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karenR answered Saturday September 29 2007, 12:55 pm:
You don't have much choice but to leave him alone for now. Should you wait? No, I don't think so. No
need for you to sit around while he is deciding. There are things to do and people to see out there!
Besides, if he sees you talking and laughing with another guy, he might get over some of his confusion. :)

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scootermclisle answered Saturday September 29 2007, 10:53 am:
There's nothing you can do except be honest with this guy about how confused you feel. Try just being friends with him for now. You shouldn't "wait" or him per se, but if you love someone, you shouldn't leave them. Just take this as it comes.

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