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FTM sex change


Question Posted Friday September 28 2007, 10:56 am

Ok,so im only 14...im biologically female...yet once im old enough im going to change my name to a males name which i have already picked...it will be kevin,and i plan on having chest surgery preferable key hole..but then hopefully i can get the cash for phalloplasty...does anyone know any really great doctors for that?? if im going to get a penis,i want it to look real natural

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DepthofHeart answered Sunday September 30 2007, 12:20 am:
Well, first of all, I think you should be happy with your gender. So if being a guy will make you happy, then go for it. YG is right though, doctors won't even consider talking to you about it until you're 18 and you'll have to talk to a therapist. You can try talking to a doctor about what it's like, and what the surgery is like, but you shouldn't mention that that's what you want to do until you're older.

This operation will be very life altering, and might do a lot of damage to you...emotionally. So please be 100% certain this is what you want. You might consider talking to someone who's had it done to see how they feel about it, if they regret it. Do some research also, because you'll never be the same again. So I highly recomend you take my advice and talk to someone who has had the operation done, don't go into this lacking any sort of information about how this will affect you or your life.

I wish you luck in whatever decision you make


::Jasmine::

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karenR answered Saturday September 29 2007, 1:47 pm:
You won't find a doctor who will even talk to you about it until you are 18. Then you will have to go through interviews with psychiatrists for about a year before they will do it.

The best way to find a doctor is look one up in the phone book and then go on the internet and find out all you can about the doctor.

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coOokiie answered Saturday September 29 2007, 9:28 am:
Your going to REGRET it.
Your only 14 you don't know what you want yet
you think you do but you don't all teenagers want everything just wait and see when your 18 watch how your life changed and watch all your regrets go by.

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