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BIG mistake
alright so i have a boyfreind who i care about very much. hes in college like 3 hours away and im still in high school.
over the weekend i went to visit my freind up at a differnet college. well i was very drunk and i made out with this guy. i really dont even remember it much, and it was a HUGE mistake.
well before i even had a chance to tell my boyfreind for myself, my freind told him what happened, and now i don't know what to do.
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Well, of course you know you have no choice but to own up to it, now.
But I think the real problem is with your friend. I think you need to have a good conversation with that person, because that was pretty rude to be telling him before you even had a chance to do so yourself.
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Talk to him. I know it doesn't make sense, but it's better if he hears it from you. You can explain to him what happened. And tell him your sorry and such. If he first doesn't like the idea that you kissed another guy, give him some time.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
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Talk to your boyfriend as soon as possible! Ideally, you should have been the first to tell him, but since that's not an option just call him as soon as you can. Otherwise, it will seem like you are trying to avoid the issue or even hide it completely. When you talk to him, explain to him everything that happened and emphasize the fact that you were DRUNK and had very little control over your actions. Tell him how bad you feel about betraying him. You have betrayed his trust and of course this is going to really upset him, but hopefully your bond with each other is strong enough to see you through this.
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