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Okay, so I just started hanging out with a new group of guys like 2 weeks ago. All my friends have been hanging out w/ them their whole lives. I can't warm up to them. I get all cramped up when i see them and i don't put myself out there. I know i can do it because i'm super flirtatious and outgoing w/ other guys and people. Its just this certain group, i just can't do it. They aren't super attractive or anything some of them are actually ugly but they have that confidence level that i can't get over. I don't like any of them in that way i just want to have a good time when i hang out with them. And i can't do it just standing around and looking at other people have fun. I need some way to get over my scared feelings. I've been told like a thousand times to just "be myself" I need something good. Thanks in advance :)
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Well "being yourself" is the #1 answer, but of course everyone always wants to hear something they can do to better themselves. You can't really "make" yourself feel confident, you just have to be it because if you push it it'll feel even worse. It's probably just because you haven't really gotten to know them that much. So just keep hanging out with them, & eventually you'll be fitting in no time. Oh and also, when you do hang out with them and your other friends, forget their there & just be crazy & have fun and don't let anyone tell you to do so otherwise (:
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