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damage control
16/f
so i gave my neighbor's cousin who goes to a local public school (i go to private school) head over the summer...basically, biggest mistake of my life and it was my first time giving head. so i think he's telling people and i know for sure that 2 girls in my grade who hate me know about it....everyone's going to think i'm a slut if it spreads. what should i do for damage control?
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my private school's a jewish private school...people hook up, but the scene is very...different from a normal high school.
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first.... that is not the worst thing in your life nor will it ever be. It is no big deal people give head to poeple everyday and its not a sin nor is it in anyway at all wrong. just dont worry about it. Who cares if people know? its none of their buissness anyway. and if someone mentions it oneday just look at them and go "yeah i did" in a very calm its not big deal at all tone and look away. nobody will ever talk about it again. i promise.
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I don't know what to tell you other than its your word against his, if you don't mind lying about it. He can't honestly have any proof, and if people believe you over him then he'll gain a bit of a reputation as a horny boy who WISHES you had given him head.
You're in high school...I'm sure you're not the only one who has given head to someone(and regretted it) before.
Just let it wash over. My friend was caught giving head twice at different parties. Most people called her a skank but its not like they treated her differently.
But again you're in high school. Oral sex aren't the biggest things going on :P try not to worry too much.
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