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Question Posted Monday September 17 2007, 8:45 pm

f/14

okay so me and my friends (let's call us Linda (me) sammy, becky, tyler and julie)K? well anyway "Julie" and i are like the leaders of our group mainly because we the first of the friends and b/c we are a lot more confident than the rest of our group (some people mistake it as being cruel and bitches). Either way me and Julie are also the closets. Don't think to badly about us, but we also like each other most, but sammy gets so angry and crazy everytime we are together b/c she knows we like each other more. I really love sammy, and i don't want to hurt her but she has changed thanks to being corrupted by the devil reincarnate ( let's call her Danniell.) Sammy is also a constant liar i am not sure if i can trust her. The only reason we formed this group in school is becasue eveyone hates us because they think we are spoiled bitches, ut we are so not bitches! anyway i would hate to leave sammy. i love her so much and we are her only other friends other than Danniell who is ruining her.


remeber we really are good people! lol i know me and Julie sound evil lol :-)



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skylalou_1 answered Wednesday September 19 2007, 1:45 pm:
well, if you don't wanna leave Sammy, you should talk to her about how you feel about her, well the part when you said your not sure if you can trust her or not. the least she can do is listen since you said ya are her only other friends, other than Danielle.. just tell her that you think Danielle is ruining her and that she isn't a good example for Sammy. Remember, you need to be able to trust your friends, so just talk to her about it, maybe she'll listen and understand.. i know it's not much but I hope I helped... =) * Skyla *

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Teza answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 11:40 pm:
Sammy feels left out so of course she is going to look for new friends and other people to hang out. Even though you & Julie are really close, why can't you let Sammy in? Why not be close friends with her eather and not make her feel left out. I know that your probably don't intend to leave her out, but put yourself in her position. You and Julie both need to talk to her about it and let her know how you feel about her friendship with Danniell. I'm syre she'll understand and if not, oh well. You guys can't make "leaders" in your group or friends. If people think so low of you, who cares bit maybe that's the impression you give to people? So, like I said. Talk to Sammy and let her know that you guys only want what's best for her and make more of an effort to spend time with her and not make her feel left out.

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