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So confused. Sorry its so long.


Question Posted Monday September 17 2007, 2:08 pm

Ok well this school year hasn't really started out that great. Well this summer, me and my best guy friend started liking each other & kinda acted like we were going out. But we couldn't cuz our other best friend likes him too. So I ended up kinda not talking to them much anymore. But when this school year started, I sorta changed. Like I used to dress wicked preppy and now its just like jeans & a band T-shirt. Not really a big deal. And I really don't care if anyone else has a problem with that. Well I started to talking to my guy friend again a little bit and he asked me why I changed. But he didn't mean clothes, he meant personality. I truthfully don't see it. All I know is I acted sorta sad when I was around him in class because I miss him and I still want to be with him. And it turns out that our other friend doesn't like him anymore. And he told me that he never got over me and he still loves me.But i hafta show him that I haven't changed my personality. Cuz I'm still the same nice, crazy, person I was. So I really need help in showing how to do that, Please!

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karenR answered Wednesday September 19 2007, 1:00 pm:
What you wear shouldn't make a difference at all.
He will see you are the same person if you give it time. You might explain to him why you acted so glum before. Let him know you are still interested. :)

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thelaura answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 7:38 pm:
He may have got a bit offended seeing as you didn't talk to him much anymore.
Give it a little while and he will see you haven't changed.
Hang out with him often. In and out of school if you can. Perhaps just you two so you can get your original bond back.
Do whatever you guys used to do. Call him randomly and stuff - make a little extra effort.
Also, are you sure you haven't changed at all? You may have matured. Or it's possible he's the one that has changed?
Good luck anyway!

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