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HOW CAN I GET HIM TO ANSWER ME


Question Posted Monday September 17 2007, 2:07 pm

ok so my ex an i were together for about 6 months and we broke up for a lot of reasons.
1. we live in different cities
2. he is still married but not living with his wife
3. i became really clingy and paroniod about everything.

anyways after we broke up we stopped talking to each other for about a month, but we just couldn't stay aways for long it has been 3 months now and i still love him so much and i think he still cares i mean he tells me that he wants to be with me that he wants to see me and asks when i am going to move to his city since that was the plan to be closer and because i want out of where i live.

but every time i ask him is he is being true with me he doesn't answer me, he was never like that he always answered any question i had.

how can i get him to asnwer me? i just don't want to get hurt anymore.


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karenR answered Wednesday September 19 2007, 12:55 pm:
To be blunt and honest if you don't want to be hurt anymore put this relationship way behind you and move on.

He isn't answering because he isn't being true and doesn't want to lie about it. He isn't divorced, makes it real easy to say "I can't marry you". You
are more than likely not the only one he is messing with. You became clingy and that is a problem for him.

Find a nice guy with no baggage and who treats you
like you are the best thing that happened to him.
There are guys like that out there.

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Brandi_S answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 7:26 pm:
Well, you can demand an answer and hope the answer he gives isn't just something you want to hear, or you can accept the high possibility that he has no answer to give you.
It is possible that he either isn't being true with you or he is unsure if that is what he really wants.
Honestly? If he can't give you an answer to that question, you should seriously consider moving on to avoid being hurt.

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