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best friends liking the same guy SUCKS!!!!
ok i dont know what to do me and my best friend started liing the same guy...we both added him on myspace he added both of us and sent me a message and started talking to me not her well i not a very outgoing person but my friend is...we both got his number and were texting him well my friend in text told him she was interested in him me not being as outgoing didnt...now she keeps telling me how she is hanging out and going places with him...but i dont want to here it...and she even admitted that if i were to have told the guy how i felt things would be different...but its like i cant tell him now because that would be screwed for her...but would it...i dont know what to do...but i have already got my heart broken once in the past couple months and this is not helping...what do i do????
please help...i am ready to give up on everything
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She`s just telling you about how they`re hanging out to make you jealous. Not very nice, but that`s what she`s doing. When she does this, just smile & say, "Oh, that sounds really fun." Don`t even show even the tiniest sign of jealousy. Has he said anything about it? She might just be making it up so you`ll give up. Hey, it`s happened to me.
I know it`s hard cause you`ve already had your heart broken & you`re scared for it to happen again. If he doesn`t like you, then he`s an idiot. Trust me, they`ll be much better guys out there than him.
But, well, I`d just say go for it.
I mean, you never know what could happen if you never try. I was in this same situation a few years ago -- turns out, the guy was trying to make me jealous by going out with my friend & I didn`t know till AFTER he moved off to kentucky or something like that. Yep, I felt pretty stupid. I`m not exactly the most outgoing person in the world either, but I`ve learned from what happened before. If you want something, go for it & don`t let anyone or anything stand in your way. =]
Good luck!
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She knows that you like him, right? Well keep texting him and talking to him on myspace. And remind her that, even though they're hanging out, it doesn't mean that he likes her. He's not hers yet. Say that since you both like him and he might like either of you, he's fair game for both of you. Agree to not make the other person look bad, but you can both go after him.
So text him and myspace him, and mention that you two should hang out some time, really casually. Just be like, yeah, we should def chill some time. and see what he says.
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