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The Bf and the Ex =S


Question Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 6:53 pm

okay well ive been dating this guy(Fred)for about 4 months now, and well things are great! But we go to different schools and he lives 15 minutes away...so we barley get to see each other. And i pretty much love him! but then theres a problem...i still have feelings for my ex. Hes such an awesome guy and everything and i see him everyday since we go to the same school. And he wants to get back together with me and i kinda want to as well...but then theres still Fred!and i have no clue what to do.I don't know if ending it with Fred would solve my problem, cause id hurt fred and myself at the same time...but i really want my ex back=S. UGH this confuzed girl needs some help. Anything would be awesome! Thanks.

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AlyssaBT4T answered Tuesday September 18 2007, 6:08 pm:
I always do this rule.
If I like a guy for 2 weeks, without liking anyone else then I will ask him out. Now for you I think you should be fair to fred. If you aren't going to be a good gf then dump him.

Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T

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sunnyville answered Monday September 17 2007, 6:43 pm:
I think you should go for your ex since you get to see him all the time,plus you really want to be with your ex more than him isn't that correct?Also go for the one you know it's going to definitely work out.Follow your heart.

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thelaura answered Monday September 17 2007, 6:41 pm:
If you aren't sure who you want to be with, basically, you shouldn't be with either. It's not fair on you and it's certainly not fair on them.
But think;
You and your ex broke up for a reason. To be honest, getting back with ex's spells disaster alot of the time.
Noone here can tell you who to choose, really.
Follow your heart sweetie.
Best of luck.

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