me and this girl jenn have been best friend for three years already and i hate to see the friend ship end but latly she has been talking behind my back and ditching me and when i try to tell her she just gets mad what should i do?
sunnyville answered Monday September 17 2007, 1:44 pm: Confront her again,it's obuvious the truth hurts her,tell her way does she have the nerve to talk trash about you,real friends don't do stuff like that,if she does the same thing again,then there is nothing to try to fix,because since she doesn't want to cooperate or give an explanation for her bad actions just send her to hell people like that don't deserve your friendship. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
thelaura answered Monday September 17 2007, 9:30 am: Think about it;
Why would you want someone who talks about you behind your back and ditches you as a friend?
I know it's hard, considering you have 3 years of memories together, but lets face it, that's life and unfortunately, people change.
Don't run around after her. Let it go. If it bothers her that much, she'd come back to you and apologize.
Good luck girlie. Don't let her get you down. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
xkaye answered Monday September 17 2007, 8:15 am: Your gonna hafe to let her go, I know it hurts, cause you guys have been bestfriends for 3 years, but a true friend wouldn't do that, and even if she was, she'd try to work things out, but she's not. So your gonna hafe to do the hard thing and let her go. But don't worry, everything will work out fine in the end. [ xkaye's advice column | Ask xkaye A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Monday September 17 2007, 3:24 am: You know, though it really sucks, I think you should just let her go.
A true best friend would not do those things to you. She would watch your back, not stab it. She wouldn't get mad when you confront her with your feelings- she would listen to you and try to make things right.
I know it is hard to move on from a lengthy friendship, but it just isn't worth it if she is being a fake.
You deserve better than that.
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