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me being nice and stupid ex
okay well i have kinda a big problem.
me and my boyfriend broke up like 2 weeks ago.
and my ex from before him is starting to come back and wants to be with me again.
but before in our relationship he was an ass and he did kinda treat me like shit and cheated on me. and alll my friendds hate him because of what he did to me.
but i lost my virginity to him last year, so i never really got over him completely.
and now hes back, and saying hes never got over me and hes always loved me and all this stuff
so my question is should i give him another chance?
or just kinda be with him for a couple weeks and see how he is?
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Did the guy that you just broke up with treat you better than the ex that's coming back around> ?
If so then keep upgrading to another better guy. You don't want to go on that ride again. Cheating, getting treated like shit, NO ! If you can't think of being without him and etc. Give this a try, write a list Pros about him on one side and Cons about him on the other. Which list is longer. if it's cons then say bye bye Mr. Cheater. If not you can maybe try to give him another chance, but just don't say that it's exclusive right away. Give yourself an out if things aren't going the way you want. #2 Write yourself a promise note ( i know that it's sounds stupid, but i have done this too and it helps ) Promise yourself in writing that if things keep going the way they were b4 then you have to lose him for your own good. I know that it is hard to get over an ex, a first love and the one that you lost your virginity to. But if things aren't right then you are only wasting your valuable teenage time. I hope that this has helped.
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There's never really a right answer when it comes to that stuff. Speaking from experience though, getting back with him might not be a good idea. You might end up getting hurt again and if not trust issues can be a big problem. Getting with him for a little while to see how it is could also be a bad idea because you might end up getting stuck in the relationship. I feel stuck in the relationship I'm in now. I love the guy to death, but he did cheat on me. I kind of wish I never got back with him, but at the same time I think it would've hurt me too much to not be with him. It's not the same though. I can't trust him like I used to and trust is a big part relationships.
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No,you shouldn't,you can't be with someone who treated you like dirt,let him beg all he wants you have to make him feel bad,by you rejecting him he'll most likely learn his lesson,know that you were the wrong person to mess with,and not do the same thing to other girls.
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Hello!
Well,
Would you like to be treated like shit again ?
Would you like to be cheated on again ?
Would you like to get heartbroken again ?
If there all no then no you shouldn't once a player always a player you will get over him and you will be happy with the decison you made trust me its way better then getten a broken heart again move on plenty more fish in the sea xD
MuchLOVE!
xoxoxo
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N-O, NO.
He treated you like shit and cheated on you.
An ex is an ex for a reason. He needs to stay that way or you are looking for a broken heart. Period.
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