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Question Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 1:34 am

If i tell my therapist that i have been molested, does she have to tell someone? Obviously theres a certain level of dr/patient confidentiality, but in some situations they're obligated to tell, or can tell. Do you think she can tell me my parents because im under 18? (im 17.) thanks.

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Razhie answered Sunday September 16 2007, 11:13 pm:
Most states require a therapist (or really any other professional) to report suspected child abuse or if they felt any client, was in danger or was a danger to others. Molestation would likely need to be reported if the therapist thought you were still at risk of being molested again.

Talk to your therapist about confidentiality and what things they must legally report. Feel free to talk to them about the molestation, until you tell them who was responsible, they don't actually HAVE anything to report.

They should not involve your parents without your consent, although by law, they might need to contact law enforcement in some cases.

ASK your therapist what those cases are. They should know pretty clearly when they need to break confidentiality and be able to explain it to you.

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Brandi_S answered Sunday September 16 2007, 8:57 pm:
Personally? I think you should tell her anyway and ask her to please keep it confidential. Discussing that you have been molested is definitely something that is crucial to her job of helping you out.

Honestly? I'm not certain on this, but I would be willing to bet that she can't tell your parents.

Why? Not only the whole doctor/patient confidentiality, but also she realizes that in order for you to get the help you need and deserve, you have to be able to trust her with what is going on in your head. If she tells and you lose that trust in her, she is back to square one with you and in turn is no longer much of a help to you.

At least that is how I see it.

ygs-29/f

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alex_ABC_123 answered Sunday September 16 2007, 8:15 pm:
I am not sure. It really depends on the therapist. Maybe ask her if any of the stuff no matter how important it is, you tell her will she tell anybody such as your parents. I would tell her then if she says no, and tell her you would really like to keep this confidential and you would only like to talk about it with her. I on the other hand think this is a serious matter and your parents should know about this. But that is however your decision and if you don't feel comfortable speaking about it with them, then don't. But you can always talk to somebody here such as me. Hope i helped!!

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