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stop the crying..
OK, my boyfriend went to the Navy a few days ago, and i have cried for about 3 days straight and just today i have barly cried. and i'm really sad because i do not get too see him or talk to him for 2 months, only write.
But my main question is, how can i over come such sadness, i have no one too talk to anymore? also i am scared that he will come back really really changed and things will be diffrent, but in a bad way. can you please advise on not too freak out or something to make me feel better?
THANK YOU~~
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Don't freak out? Wasn't really much of a question there, to be honest. But I'm willing to bet he will come back feeling the same about you as when he left.
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talk to his parents.
honestly, they're missing him as much as you are, maybe more. i had a friend who went into the army, his girlfriend became a wreck.
eventually she got a grip on herself and in time her and her bf's mom became close friends.
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If it makes you feel any better? My brother [whom I'm very close to] leaves on Friday, going to Iraq for eight months. [he's a marine.] So, I'd like to think I know how you feel- I plan on crying my eyes out for a while.
I've talked to his fiance alot lately, and she said that she's going to spend alot of time with her other friends [my brother's her best friend] and with her family, until her heart just kindof feels a little less than completely shattered.
Time heals things. Maybe not completely, but you love your boyfriend, don't you?
Trust that everything will work out.
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right off the bat i'm going to tell you that no matter what happens when he comes back his feelings for you are going to be amazingly strong just like yours are going to be amazingly strong for him.you have to realize that he misses you just as much as you miss him and he loves you alot for really being there for him and waiting for him to come home. try to keep yourself occupied. go out alot and do stuff with your friends and try not to think about it to much. remember just because your mind was taken off him for one day does not mean that he will stop loving you. also now you have something to look foward too. imagine what it will feel like when he gets back. i think it's a little bit harder because it's the navy which is scaary to think about. imagine he's somewhere else and that he'll be perfectly fine. all in all 2 months can go by pretty quickly if your not careful and he'll be back before you know it. Hoped this helped a little:)
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