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fear of being dumped.
So I haven't been with my boyfriend for that long, and right now our relationship seems great everyone thinks we're really cute and perfect.
but lately, i feel really scared that he might meet someone prettier and break up with me for someone else.
how can i get my self esteem back up?
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Okay so your definetly not alone. its really common but i can definetly offer you some advice. first off you have to understand that the reason he is with you has only a little bit to do with why he likes you. if you were the most beautiful girl on earth but were as dumb as a doorknob and as shallow as a puddle(sorry bout all the metaphors) he wouldn't date you. this means your unique. he will never find a girl like you no matter how hard he looks. plus you have to understand that chances are very good that he feels the same way. having an amazing girlfriend is...well amazing but it can also be very stressful because there are other guys out there other then him. your both really in the same boat so don't worry about it and stay positive. don't think "he might find someone prettier" think "he's with me right now and nobody else and thats what matters". I hoped this helped:)
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That always happens to me. You can only reassure yourself enough that he is with you for a reason, if he did like someone else, or find someone prettier then you, then he would dump you so there is no question they he likes you. You know that you are a great person, and that you have a lot of things to offer that other girls don't. I don't think you should be afraid of being dumped, because if he does dump you then hes the one loosing out and if you break up then it happened for a reason, and you should accept it then move on. My self esteem always goes down when i have a boyfriend, its only when your single that you see that you are wanted by many different guys. But all this stuff i have been talking about, doesn't matter one bit. Because you don't need approval from a guy that your great. Think of all the other things that you do well. Thats not to say that you don't need your boyfriend, i'm just saying that you shouldn't be afraid of break ups because they don't mean that much, people can go through weeks of depression becuase of break ups and you don't need to be that person. Just remember, things happen for a reason, and just because a guy might break up with you, that doesn't mean that you aren't worth it, you are, your worth everything life gives you, and some of the things it doesn't. Don't forget that, and you will be just fine.
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