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He isn't very good at oral sex
My boyfriend and I have been dating a long time. I love the man dearly. Now, we have been having sex quite a while, and at first I wasn't really into the whole oral sex thing. Now I am, I like it. Now my boyfriend has had sex with 6 girls but only eaten me out. So I guess he is new at this. But I keep hearing that if it doesn't feel really good then he is doing it wrong. Now, I am not going to lie, it doesn't feel that good. I am usually just doing it because he wants to. How should I tell him to change what he is doing because it just doesn't feel good. And I want to be suttle. Should I just suggest different things? And if so what? I have never had anyone else eat me out, so I'm not sure what feels good.
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okay well yeah ive heard that too.. if it doesnt feel good something is probably wrong. you kinda have to be more detailed to what he actually is doing.. but i can still answer. maybe just suggest that he do something different. tell him you want to try something new. also, maybe youre not relaxed enough. if youre worried about something or being self concious it probably wont feel good. try to only concentrate on whats going on. relax! good luck!
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Nobody likes to hear they ae lousy at something. This is quadroupled when it comes to sexually pleasing one's partner. All you need to do is tell him "You know, that feel's good but I really like it when you focus on this or that spot."
This way he's not offended. You need to guide him when you engage in this activity or he'll remain clueless. He's likely never seen female genitals before nor knows his way around.
I doubt he's slept with anyone before you. It's possible he has however, he never engaged in oral sex with the previous partners. You need to educate him and talk before, during, after about what you like and dislike. He cannot be expected to figure it out alone.
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What's wrong with your man is that he is lying to you.If he only has oral sex with you and does not do anything else with you he is a virgin.You need to teach him what to do.Suggest that you get on top, or he get on top,oral sex wise show him what pleases you,and if that doesn't work get a sex book or watch porns together that is something that gets a man excited.I am no weirdo I am telling you the truth. I doubt he as only had sex with 6 girls if he only does that and if he did then get yourself checked out for stds girl.
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