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I think im going to get the ab roller..wheel..thing for my stomach becuase im trying to work it out. Its the thing that is a wheel with little handles sticking out..hopefully you know what i mean. Question is, for how many minutes a day, and how many days, or weeks, or monthes whatever, will i need to use it in order to get a 6 pak. Or not even that, just some improvement from my one pack. Im not even fat, i just have wat looks like a big belly. So anyone who can answer me, thank you, ive never really worked out before. (link)
Don't get a ab roller get an ab lounge or ablounge two that works a lot better.And when you use it do one hundered a day.


Okay so I'm 14 and I have a really hard time flirting wiht 17 year olds. Any advice? (link)
You have a hard time because you have nothing in common girl!Flirt with guys your own age.


So my boyfriend broke up with me, and I know it was for another girl, but I'm not supposed to know. And he broke up with me so suddenly without giving me any explanation. I am so hurt. So yesterday I worked up the courage to call him and ask him why he broke up with me. I made it clear that I deserved to know why. And I said stuff like please tell me because nothing could hurt me more than how I feel right now. But he refused to tell me. So he told my friend that he was mad at me for calling. I think that he has no right ot be mad, I think that if anyone should be mad it should be me. I just don't understand. (link)
Don't fret girl there are plenty of fish in the sea.He broke up with you because he got bored with you.See to him you are like a toy when he is tired of playing with you he throws you away.He saw something new that he liked and he went for it.See men change there minds about things everyday.Don't worry if you are a good woman like you say you are good things will come your way.And of course he is not going to tell you because to be real with you it was another girl.He has no right to be mad you should.Forget him move on and find someone you deserve girl!


im having trouble with my myspace and facebook. for some reason, everytime someone comments me on myspace, i get a message on myspace asking if i want to allow or deny the comment. it says 'request to approve comment'. the thing is, in my account settings, i didnt set it so that i have to approve the comment first. and all of a sudden it is doing that.

also, on facebook, i cant comment people, because when i click 'post' it doesnt do anything. or anytime i click a button on facebook, nothing happens, no matter how many times i click the button. when i click links on facebook, nothing happens .... the only time the page changes is if i click on an underlined link. but thats it.

any ideas? please help if you can. (link)
myspace can have virus on it get rid of it.


is it a good phone? i have sprint right now and am thinking about switching over for the sidekick. any advice or suggestions? (link)
compare the prices and look for deals and if you like the sidkick better get it.If you like the prices and deals sprint has get that one or should i say keep that one.


So my friend and I are thinking about getting tattos, When she's eighteen and I'm seveteen. I know I'll need a legal guardian and thats not a problem.
But what are some good things to look for when finding a tatoo shop, and how much does it cost about, and the pain? I'm pretty good with pain, if you could compare it to something that'd be great. Thankss. (link)
clean tools,cleanliness,good prices,and assortment of pictures.Ask questions like how much is a tatto,how long have you been in business those types of questions.And yes it is a little painful I know because I have one on my arm.If you take care of it properly then it will not get infected and you will be fine.Shop around don't go to the first one you see ok.


i havnt had my first kiss yet and i want it to be speacial. i dont know where or when or who it will be with but does anyone have an idea on what would make it speacial??? (link)
If it with the one who makes your heart pound,and makes you feel those butterflies in your stomach.When you find your match you will know.


17/m

ok so me and my girlfriend decided we wanted to take a shower together and yea..
well i was fingering her and she was playing with my dick and then we would like hug and my dick would be right by her pussy and some pre cum got on it

well then she read a thing that said cum could get inside you and make u pregnet without even having sex

so i was wondering if pre cum has sperm in it and if it can get a girl pregnet like cum can?

please helpppp
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If you cum inside her it can. If you cum and it is right by her vigina then maybe it a little got inside of her.If it didn't no because it got washed away in the shower.If she feels like she might feel like she is pregant have her get a pregnancy test just to ease her mind ok.


My boyfriend and I have been dating a long time. I love the man dearly. Now, we have been having sex quite a while, and at first I wasn't really into the whole oral sex thing. Now I am, I like it. Now my boyfriend has had sex with 6 girls but only eaten me out. So I guess he is new at this. But I keep hearing that if it doesn't feel really good then he is doing it wrong. Now, I am not going to lie, it doesn't feel that good. I am usually just doing it because he wants to. How should I tell him to change what he is doing because it just doesn't feel good. And I want to be suttle. Should I just suggest different things? And if so what? I have never had anyone else eat me out, so I'm not sure what feels good. (link)
What's wrong with your man is that he is lying to you.If he only has oral sex with you and does not do anything else with you he is a virgin.You need to teach him what to do.Suggest that you get on top, or he get on top,oral sex wise show him what pleases you,and if that doesn't work get a sex book or watch porns together that is something that gets a man excited.I am no weirdo I am telling you the truth. I doubt he as only had sex with 6 girls if he only does that and if he did then get yourself checked out for stds girl.


i have recently gotten mono and i have been dating my boyfriend for quite a while. the most common way to attain mono is through kissing. he is the only person i have kissed for over a year. should i be worried that he has been messing around on me?

when i ask him he swears that nothing is going on.

not only that, but i have just had my doubts lately. i really love him and i dont want to be a controlling crazy girlfriend but i dont want to be strung along like an idiot either. what do you recommend i do?

and if you have ever had mono, how long did it take until you felt better? (link)
I've never had mono but I know someone who does and it took them awhile to feel better.If he gave you mono ask yourself what else did he give you?What you need to do is get yourself checked out for stds? You still can get certain things from kissing someone.Come on now that if you ask a guy is he messing around he will say no of course that is what they do when they are tryihng to hide something from you!If you love him you will have to trust him if not let him go there are plenty of other men out there.I know one thing if someone gave me mono I definately would worry and that is a hint girl that he is messing around.Be carefull girl because there are others things out there two that you can get from kissing that are worse then that.Watch yourself girl!


How much does getting a soccer/field hockey/football field cost to make it turf?
Please answer quickley! (link)
ask someone in your area that deals with businesses and sport advertising and marketing.


I am already in college and unfortunetly I didn't get to the elite one I hoped for. I recived 2100 SAT test scores however my grades only reached a B. My little sister started high school(freshman) a week ago and she has a chance at getting into those elite colleges, however, my parents don't give any motivation.

I was wondering about programs/awards that she can try out for which can help her get recognition for those elite colleges and help her get in. For instance I know there is a Bronze Duke of Edinburgh award which teens in englang get and that helps them get recognition and get into better colleges. Stuff like that. (link)
Honors society,american govt,humaine society,habitat for humanity.Those are some of them if you need more have her to ask her school counselor.Hope this helps.


okay im a 15/f gunna be 16 soon.
im a cheerleader.
im so scared of getting anything pierced, i havnt even gotten my ears pierced yet.
i wanna get my ears and my belly done but i want my belly first because im willing to wait to get my ears.

i wanna get my belly pierced, but i cant do it right away i have to wait for summer because of cheerleading or when were not on season. i do bolth football and basketball season so its hard.

so anyways, i would like to know if anyone knows when i should get it because of cheerleading, if anyone knows a place i can get it done neer West Bloomfield MI USA 482324, and if anyone knows what the best way to get it done if its like numming it our whatever because i really want it im just terrified of it.

please, help.
thank you. (link)
I think you should get your ears done first not your belly button.Because the belly button hurts to much.check out the yellow pages online or a regular yellow pages book for piercing places.


female how can i convince my mom to let me have a party for my 14th birthday? pleasee can you give me some advive :] thankss (link)
Well first of all the only way that is going to happen is if you have her get involved in the planning of the party.And it would probably help if she was there to oversee everything.If that doesn't work girl then you are out of luck.


13 female
i want to have a party for my 14th birthday in my back yard we now some songs we want to play but what kinds of food, direcrations, and stuff to do so the guest don't get bored (link)
Well the first thing you got to ask yourself what kind of music do you like? What kinds of food do you like? And what decorations do you want to have at this party? If that doesn't work assemble a party committe.These are the people that come up it ideas and vote on the things that are going to happen at is party of yours.Have everyone make a list of songs,food,decorations,and stuff they like to do when they go to a party and you vote on it.That is how you can solve this problem.


okay, so i've somehow developed this fear of eating in front of people i dont know. its the weirdest thing. i dont eat lunch any more at schoool and i dont exactly eat much breakfast either. i eat some when i get home, and then ofcourse dinner. but thats it. do you think that its okay? (link)
It is a little weird but if that's what you want to do keep doing it.As long as you eat three times a day that is.


Lately I've been gotting really bad anxiety attacks and I don't know what's been causing them. I want to know what I need to do, either to make them stop, or ease down a little. I get really really shakey and I feel like I have to puke, and sometimes my legs even collapse. Is there a pill or soemthing I could take, or a perscription I need or something like that to make them go away? (link)
You are just a nervous reck that is why you have anxiety. You need to figure out what you are scared of and face it head on. You need to relax some and if it doesn't go away seek professional help.


i just got my haircut today and i went really short and i didnt know i was going to be REALLY short, so my question is how long will it take for hair to grow out?

15/f (link)
about six months if you hair grows fast and if you eat a lot of protien. If you want to you can go to a site called carol wright gifts and you can buy a hair product that makes your hair grow back before the six months.


Hi, I have a Ipod Video.

I would like to know how you download Movies and T.V. shows onto it.

Where can I download them from, for free and not for free.

Exactly how to put them onto Itunes and then onto my Ipod.

Please & thank you ! (link)
Ipods don't take to too many sites without messing the ipod up or your computer. You can try though but most are the sites now are sites you have to pay for.


I am choosing between two outfits for the first day of 8th grade. I want to look mature in my outfit yet fun. One thing i'm not sure about in these outfits though is the miniskirts. I want to give a good first impression to my teachers, and not give the new kids and younger kids the impression that I dress slutty.Do you think they are too short? I can't wear shorts because all my shorts are old and too ratty to wear that day. Oh by the way, you can't see the shoes so in both i'm wearing gold metallic flats. Also, how should I wear my hair?

1. http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5412now...
2. http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4t77i4x... (link)
I like the second outfit. I just don't like the skirt.Wear some hot jeans to go with that top girl. And make sure the clothes are comfortable and something that you like.Don't try to impress anybody else.




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