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do guys prefer "down there" shaved or not shaved while fingering? i know ure going to say some guys like this and others like that, but which is more prefered?
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a bush dont look very nice! lol but when you shave your get stubble after a day or two...try waxing it or trimming it...but just make sure there is not a bush there (sorry if i offended anyone lol) let me know if i was able to help thnks x
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I am 15/male.
Its pretty much exactley what it sounds like. Im sick of disapointing my parents. I fail school. I dress so awkwardley that there embarresed to be seen with me. Im a complete total fuck up. I have anger issues. Im always fighting with my mom. I told her i didnt want to be a part of the family, and the look on her face KILLED me inside. They found out i smoke, and my mom didnt do anything except cry. becuase her mom died at like 30 from cancer. Im always getting in trouble with them. Oh and i like men. and i cant tell them that becuase i cant and i wont deissapoint them more. Im sad to say that the easiest way to get through this, is to kill myself. Im not really looking for advice. Im kind of just venting to anyone who cares. :(
Sincerley,
Me. (link)
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i care!...let me start by sayin that being alive is a GIFT, an that you are so lucky to have parents good or bad..you are lucky to have clothes..in fashion or out!..there are children and even grown ups who have gone through life without that love or support...!..also, nothing and NOTHING in this world is worth dieing for...you are a strong person if you have held out in this situation this longg!!..you seem like a strong indiviudla and even though it seems shit and fuked up now itll get better trust..me! i hav had big problems in my family and its broken up andits gotten togtheva and people that i love and cherish passed and it hurts so much and eve though i dont know you! knowing that someone wants to commit sucide hurts alot!! you hav all your life in front of you and you can be who you want without any judgements...if you want to talk more you can send me an email or here or gimme me feedback and ill be more then happy to help!! tc n please think twice!..trust me someboy out there loves you! you just dont know it yet! tc x x mwah
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Every thing in my life is getting screwed...
School: This b*tch in my class made fun of me regarding something I wrote in her year book and the whole class was cracking up...
Family:My mom n dad are expecting me to get really good grades so I've started studying six hours a day. My parents work till 9 in the night. So when they come back they shout at me and say that I dont study at all (Frustrating)
Love life: My mom doesnt want me to talk to the one guy I love is this whole world...
Its killing me inside and I cry practically the entire day (even as I write this)...I cant even concentrate on anything now...Any advice to make me feel better is acceptable...Thanx. (link)
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let me do this by section ok?
School: school is a place where this stuff happens cnstantly..soo that certain day it might have been you but later it will be someone else! so you wont stay the top story for long! Also, i knw what schools like, its mostly filled with the bitchesn and bastards...soo ignore them..as long as your friends knw the true you! hope this helped x
Family: your mum and dad are at work..soo they dont knw when your workin or your not!..one thing ive always learnt 2 do is trick them!! start your work an hour before they come home this way..you get your work done and they also can see that your doing it...or ask them questions about your work even ifyou understand some times to show that you are learning!..and when you pass a test parade around the house!!..and say to them see i do work!..if you work six hours your grades should be good soo prove it to them!! hope this helped x
Love life: i knw how dads n mums can b wth love espically at such a vunlerable age!..you have to realise that shes trying to protect you even to you annoyance because she cares!...explain to her..and talk to her about this boy..i knw its hard.(in my family there ver strict and don agree with me talking to them let alone dating them :() but you put up with it...you can explain it or go behind her back and do it (which is plain wrong)
overall, i knw its hard and it sucks but you knw what people say that the bad things in life make you stronger and a better person...and by reading this you will defintely be a strong and independent person as you grow...if you need any more help just ask ...tc x x please let me know if i helped or even if i didnt!!! youll pull through i knw it xxx
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OMFG! I'm sick and tired of putting up with my dad! i hate him soo much! he's stupid and I'd wished he'd DIE! He's thrown me outside for saying goodnight, hes hit me for no reason, called me stupid names and menso(stupid) and a whole bunch of other stuff! My question is, How can I get him to divorce my mom?! how can I gt rid of him SOON?!?!?!? PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!! I hate him more than I hate the devil! if that's put in better words!!!!!!!!! UGGGH!!!! (link)
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well i think your mom must love him if she has not divorced him yet..i have a dad just like him and well it isnt a cup of time i understand..im a 16/f and he does exactly the same!! but have you tryed ignoring him,(i know thats really hard but just try and swallon your pride its what do)or most importantly talk to some one! its the best senario..someone you trust blindfolded! try your mum or a friend..because unfortunetly we do not control others feelings and emotions..hell if we did i would be married to brad pitt!..lol but we dont and some times we have to sarcfice our feelings for people you care aout even though it hurts youd feel 1000x better when you have!..if you ever need to talk im here...coz i am gong through a similar problem..alwys ere tc huni x
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Even when i wash my face in the morning, and i don't put on alot of makeup (at the stuff i do put on is the oil-free stuff), my face is always REALLY oily by the end of the day. Does anyone know some kind of product that they've used that they can reccomend that would help. Preferrably something that i would just have to put on or whatever in the morning, and not put on when my face gets oily (cause' i don't want to do it in the middle of school or when i'm out someplace) THanks. (link)
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babe BIG adivce dont aply ay cream or product becuase it will onli make it more oily! in ur chemists they should sey a oil free paper..or if uve gt grease paper handy its just the same!
after you wash your face letit draw and keep some hadny and wenver you feel like is oil they scrub the paper across your face and you can visibly see how much grease you ave and it will come off becuase its abosorbant! please let meknow if i helped thanks darlin x x
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Anyone know any songs
About someone leaving and you not wanting them to move don t give me rovk or anthing slow jams R&B pr pop please (link)
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t-pain ft faboulous - babe dont go
tank - please dont go
trey songz - missin you
aaliyah - i miss you
destinys child - got to go
beyonce - resentment
j.holiday - be with you
did u want slow jam or not?
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ok basically,i'm too thin right now and i need to build up more meat on my body and arms and such
the thing is when i eat none of the meat seems to be goin to my arms or body and only my stomach,what should i do to or eat to make my body mass bigger as an overall?
like how many times a day,what time,what food,any extra stuff? (link)
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well firstly dnt just eat anything get a utritionis and sh r he will tell you exactly what to eat and how to put on weight fast ad lose it fast!..go see this person and they should om you a diet to reach your aim or gaol in terms of weight hope ive been help let me know..xXx tc babe
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my forhead gets really shiny throughout the day and i was wondering if i do something to it it will not get shiny? thanks (link)
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i got a gr8 idea..i was exctly the saeas you!!...go to your chemist or lyk a shop were you can buy make up and hair porducts and that and ask for grease paper...or unshine paper...its bascially grease paper and you cna ou it on your forhead wenva and it really WORKS!!..lool..or just tk grease paper with you go to the girls room and just wipe it of your face..please let m kno if i helped or even if i didnt...cheers..ad take care babe...p.s usually avaible at boots!
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me and my best friend are celebrating our "anniversary." we've been friends for ten years now i want to make her something kinda special, any ideas? (link)
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hmm...i got a guud idea..make lyk a scrap book..of you and himbeing a cartoon..n strat with the first dya you met him and how and then you can think of the first memory of you to..doing something fun an any othergreat memorys and on the last page you cna draw you to getting old and then right"were going to have soo many more memories coz were freinds for life!"...lease let me know ifi helped or een if i didnt..thanks n btw try n get a cartoonist to draw the book for you!!!...keep askin!..take care babes...xx
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there's this guy that is basically my best guy friend. and i started to like him, and he liked me. so we kinda started this thing. and we kissed and everything. then i didnt get to see him for a while and now i dont think he likes me. my friend talked to him and he was kinda "ehh idk" about the whole thing. now we're going into highschool. and i really still like him and we have had a "thing" a couple times in the past too. what should i do? i really want him to still like me. (link)
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unfortuently darlin, we dont control other peoples emotions..because if we did..i would be brad pitts wife!..however, if you want an answer you must appoach him..as much as it hurts to say this..he may have maoved on already..and it seems that hes using you...?!...im not sure coz i dont have the whole sitauiton..but remebr that theres no point on havng a one way relationship..this means if the affection is only coming from one side..because them kind of relationships tend not to work!...you might fnd an ashton kutcher lookalike in thehigh schooll..onli time knows..please let meknow if i helped or even if i diidnt...n good babe..im sure ull do the right thing!.,,keeps askin..take care babe..x
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My boyfriend's birthday is in a few days and I already wrote his birthday card but i want to write more. I can't think of anything else. I wamt something cute & sweet. Nothing with "i love you" because we never said that to eachother yet.
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er this going to be corny but erm..
"babe ever since youve come into my life...youve given me soo much!..and i appreciate it.. cutiey youve alwys been there for me through thick and thin..and i know ive been blessed coz i got to be it an amazing angel...your love is a feeling i cant express..!..we`ve had ups and downs..buti know wed pull through because of the beautiful person you are and contuine to be the light in my life/darkness...youve alwys been faithful, loving, caring and a good on round person and i wanna thnak you for that..i hope we can be wit eachother forevr cz i never want to let you go..."..and at the end you cna put a litle joke in or something..hmm..like love ya loads husband to be!..u dont mean its just a joke...or love ya loads hubby?!...but thats upto u...hope i helped and goood luck..please letme know if i helped or even if i didnt!..take care babe..x
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me & my b/f are about to hit our year anniversary. what could i do for him or what could i get him??
i want to do/buy him a bunch of stuff...
Any ideas. I dont care if they are stupid or not.
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hmmm..er you could get a bunch of gifts..and make a meaning out of it...i helped my sister and her 9 year bf plan gifts for eachother and they did:
they met for the first time on the 5th so...she brought him 5 different gifts but my sister didint tell him why..i gave her this idea to her:
1. afterhsave
2. a tracksuit bottom..the bugs bunny one..
3. she sent him thebiggest me 2 u teddy bear to his house
4. got him tickects to his favourite fotball teams game on sat
5. and a surpise party to celebrate!..
she hen told him i have you five presen coz thats te first time i laid eyes on you...ad ay ill neva forget and this was at the party...and then..he got down on one kneee and sed will you marry?..becuase today is the day i met an angel..it was dead romantic..!..lol..but why dont you try that the gifts idea...it seemed to work!!..please let me know if i helped or even if i didnt!!..n keep aksin...take care babe..x
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okay so i have pretty hugee hair. its curly and frizzy but i straighten it really really good everyday, and it looks rlly straight. then i go outside and like after about an hour at school, it starts to get curly and sorta frizzy and big..expecialyy in the back.
i tryed using hairspray and things on my hair, but they have alcohol in them. i usually only wash my hair everyother night... i dont like using hairspray but the alcohol in it supposidly burns your hair pretty badd.
so yeah i dont know what to do.. also i have gym 4th hour, out of 6 classes. our school has no air conditioning so my hair looks really gross afterwards.
any ideas on how i can stillg et it to look straightt and not frizzyy? ive tried pretty much every shampoo and hair product, if you have really good hair products for me that would be nice i guess. but im more looking for just tips on how i can get it to stayy straightt.
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well..afater strightneng your hair..dnt apply hairspray strigth on your hair apply in the air then walk into it wont get damaged as much..also why dnt you try using a gel spray.or jus gel?..itll keep your hair in the right place for 24 hours...look around in the shops...there loads of stuff...hope i helped babe..let me know!..n keep wtiing..take care babe..x
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look theres this guy Peter who used to go to my school and he does again but he asked me out over msn i said yes and now hes back. He hasn't talked to me I've emailed him no reply Should I send him my note I wrote him or wait? I mean school just went in on the 4th!!! but he used to be on msn everyday!!! shouldn't he get his messages??? Some friends found out and are now harassing me about it!! Should I just break up with him now and live with not knowing? I mean 2 guys in his class I've dated and hate me!! They think I'm a s***!!
I need help
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hmm...look at like this hunni...its only been a few days..peter may ahve been grounded?..or something may have happened in this own family and wishes to be alone..i think you hould give it a few more days babe!..however..if he still doesnt say anything to you..there is possiability that he doesnt want to tell no one orake it obvious because he might feel ashmaed!...if this is the case you should dump him..he isnot worth your time...your wasting your time on someone who doesnt care enough to call, text, send email..or just talk to in class..it shows hes not bothered and you should sho him the same dnt make it alwys that you care!...please let me know if i helped or even if i diidnt!..n gud luck..im sure youll do the right thing..tack babe x
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what do you do when a guy hugs you from behind or kisses you? not dating but were bestfriends and do love eachother and we wont date for a reason.i wont say. im 13 a female (link)
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hmm....its look like that you too are obivuolsy more than friends!!...his "reason" shouldnt be breaking your love up...trust me its going to be a heartache when he deided to go for someone else because he cant be bothered or knows he wont gain anything from waiting!..but if he grabs you by the waist then hold him by the neck an slowly tun over and if he kises on the back of your head..then causually turn around and return the kiss!..butgood luck..an my real advice is tha you should be going out with him no mattaer the "reason"..please let me know if i helpedor even if i didnt!...n keep writing...xx take care huni
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Me and my bf have been together for almost 10 months now and its all been great. But in the past couple of weeks he said that i'm not kissing him like I use to. I can tell that there is a difference but I don't know what to do about it. Is there anything along with kissing that I can do to keep him mind off of it? Plz help! (link)
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it maybe because you bot need a change...your hormone are realising that your doing the same thing over and over again...soo why dont you kiss him we he least expects it..like..when you to are talkn about something and just lean over...or try to kiss different...there are loads of things you can do!...frenchkissing...etc...so good luck!...n please let me know if i had helped.or even if i didnt!..n keep askin!..xx take care huni
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On thursday, 09/6/07 will be my first day of high school. And I'm trying to fix up a nice hairdo. I have a few in mind, but if anyone could give me some hair tips that would be greatly appreciated :) (link)
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er try a quiff with your hait out...straightne makes all girlieslook sexy..let me know if i helped...:)
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my parents are being totally unfair cau i really want contacts but they say im not going to get them. they say they dont want me to get an infection or something like that, and they say they cost a whole lot more then glasses so is there any way i can get my parents to buy me contacts? caus im already 16 and i look like a total nerd wih glasses. (link)
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OMGG...in same sitauion...tell you parents dat people pik on you...lol...u can cal me wuteva yahh..but i did that n i was lky im goin colege n evryone lks goregous n im guna b lookin lyk a nerd then after ugin n buggin dem dey agreed..try my way...please let me know if ive been help or even if i havent been any...thanks keep wriitng to me..x
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So my ex n i have been on n off for like 4 or 5 yrs. At least once a yr we get back together..but its almost gonna be a year n we havent talked or seen each other n i miss him a lot. Im thinking about sending him a text just 2 see how he's doing n then take it from there. But im kinda scared he'll have a girlfriend or tell me that he's over me or something. What should i do?? 18/f (link)
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ermm....jus sey how he is...dnt mk it as though your tryin get bk wit the dude...!!..persanlly you migt not like this but i think you should not wait for himno more..b/c im sure your a gawjuss gurl and no gurl needs 2 b waitin round for a guy hu dt know deir worth!...derez soo manymore guys out dere n im sure youll find sumone whoz cares bout yu!!...n breakn up evry year or wutva..pleas ket me know if i helped or even if i diidnt thanks n keep wriitng me...x
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My birthday is in ten days and I want to do something fun with all of my friends that doesnt take too much effort to plan. I do not want a house party, a bonfire, or a sleepover (considering this is oging to be co-ed). What's something really unique and fun? Suggest away! (link)
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eerrr...hmmm...why alll have anyc dayout and go to the spa..relax and till ur dirty littl secrets(if ya know wah i mena)..lol..x dnt anymore ideas
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