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what can I do
Me and my bf have been together for almost 10 months now and its all been great. But in the past couple of weeks he said that i'm not kissing him like I use to. I can tell that there is a difference but I don't know what to do about it. Is there anything along with kissing that I can do to keep him mind off of it? Plz help!
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Just because your kisses have changed doesn't mean that your feelings have changed. Cmilner1607 is 100% right. You two have been together for a long time. Your relationship has matured and your love has grown. Your kisses are going to be different. That's not a bad thing! It's a very good thing. The adrenaline and excitement isn't there as much because it's been replaced by love. Real relationships aren't based on excitement, they're based on love. Your relationship is at an entirely different level than it was before. Try explaining this to your boyfriend. Let him know that you love him even more than before. Really old couples that have been together for 50 years don't kiss like teenagers do and you can't say that the teenagers love each other more than they do. There's no way that's true! Even though your relationship is maturing, you still don't want to get into a funk. Don't go crazy about it, but try to spice things up a little bit as cliche as that sounds. Get that fear and feeling of the unknown back in there. For example, make out in public. Do it with the door open. Try doing it outside. Try something new! The fear of getting caught or being judged by other people puts the missing adrenaline back into it. Good luck! :)
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it maybe because you bot need a change...your hormone are realising that your doing the same thing over and over again...soo why dont you kiss him we he least expects it..like..when you to are talkn about something and just lean over...or try to kiss different...there are loads of things you can do!...frenchkissing...etc...so good luck!...n please let me know if i had helped.or even if i didnt!..n keep askin!..xx take care huni
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It's just because you are thru the "spark/butterfly" stage. You want to feel comfortable with him and you are. You guys have been together so long that your kisses will change. It's a fact of love and relationships. Maybe try and spice things up a bit. Go on a nice date, or try kissing him differently. Or just try to spend time together doing others things. I think you both are just putting too much thought into it. You said you're happy. That's all that matters. Good luck. :]
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