Question Posted Tuesday September 11 2007, 8:36 pm
So my boyfriend broke up with me, and I know it was for another girl, but I'm not supposed to know. And he broke up with me so suddenly without giving me any explanation. I am so hurt. So yesterday I worked up the courage to call him and ask him why he broke up with me. I made it clear that I deserved to know why. And I said stuff like please tell me because nothing could hurt me more than how I feel right now. But he refused to tell me. So he told my friend that he was mad at me for calling. I think that he has no right ot be mad, I think that if anyone should be mad it should be me. I just don't understand.
illwill24 answered Wednesday September 12 2007, 7:00 pm: Okay so there ar two sides to this. first off your right he really doesn't have a reason to be mad at you. Is mind set might be "I broke up with her why cans she understand that and leave me alone". It's possible that he had feelings for you but not the same feelings and didn't want to hurt you more by leading you on. You may have liked him alot while he might have only just liked you. It's hard for a guy because either way the girl is going to get hurt and then to explain our reasons might even worsen the hurt. But don't worry about it you'll definetly find someone else. Hope this helped.:) [ illwill24's advice column | Ask illwill24 A Question ]
tbartley21 answered Wednesday September 12 2007, 6:50 pm: Don't fret girl there are plenty of fish in the sea.He broke up with you because he got bored with you.See to him you are like a toy when he is tired of playing with you he throws you away.He saw something new that he liked and he went for it.See men change there minds about things everyday.Don't worry if you are a good woman like you say you are good things will come your way.And of course he is not going to tell you because to be real with you it was another girl.He has no right to be mad you should.Forget him move on and find someone you deserve girl! [ tbartley21's advice column | Ask tbartley21 A Question ]
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