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How do i get over him
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Okay. So heres the deal: I dated this guy for about 3 months. Even though that isnt very long, I really fell for him...hard. We've been apart for about 5 months now and I still can't get over him. He's a senior this year, and Im a sophmore, but I always see him in the halls. Everytime I see him I try to play it cool when he waves or says hi to me but inside im dying. I feel exactly like I did before I ever went out with him, only this time its not just a crush I have on him I love him. I really miss him but I dont think he misses me anymore since so much time has passed.
To make matters worse, I've been doing some really stupid things lately, one of which is getting high and coming to school. Last week I was high and remember parts of what had happened that day, but everything I dont remember, my best friend filled me in on. When I was crazy high, I remember going up to him and hanging off of him, telling him to dump his new girlfriend, or that I would even be open to the fact of him cheating on his girl with me and i told him that i loved and missed him. Im sure I did more than that, but I do remember sayin something along those lines.
Please..I need some kind of advice. I feel so pathetic for trying to hold on to someone for so long.
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Get off the drugs. Those are great, if your goal is screwing everything up between you.
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i know how you feel. the same kinda thing happened to me. how i got over it was eventually i started hating him for making me feel like that. so basically at the beginning i hated him and loved him at the same time. its complicated, i know. but he just made me soo mad. i went out with my friends more, they said bad stuff about him and it made me feel better that my friends were on my side. so go out and hang out with your friends, do sports, join clubs, do whatever it takes to get your mind off him. please stop doing drugs. bad things can happen (as you saw).
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there is no real way to get over a guy it takes time. sure youll think about him but some otha hott guy will come along!
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date anotherguy and make him gealous it lwill make you feel good because he will want you again and you will have a new guy
If that doesn't work take a tub of ice cream and eat it the lose all the weight oh and this is important acomplish a personal goal and then last but not least do something you always wanted to do that way you feel realy good
actualy try all of this together and bring the new guy with you for what youve always wanted to do!!!!!!
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