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yeah, she dumped me.
well.....im a dude. big surprise huh? i asked a question simalar to this one awhile back, but anyway. the girl i loved and still love with all my heart, broke up with me about a month ago, over her "parents". which i heard was complete bull. well i go to ozzfest (the one in st.louis) right after she breaks up with me. for about a week i forgot about her.( i had one hell of a hangover). then on bebo, (the thing like myspace) she puts a blog up saying shes glad she broke up with me, she's never felt better about herself etc.... well i read that, it pissed me off. so i played a few george jones songs, and felt alittle better about it. then...she has her best friend tell me that she has a new boyfriend, and that hes sooooo much better than me. now this is the part where i wanna shoot a dude. sooo... i know what i need to do. just let it go. but me and this girl had been goin out since like 8th grade and im in 10th now. so its kinda hard. so anyone got any ideas on what i should do about all this, or how to just let go?
-thanks
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What a bitch. And don't get mad at the now boyfriend. And are you sure you want to date that again? Doesn't seem like something I'd want to do again.
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To release yourself of all desires is to release yourself from all pain.
Sit and think...
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ozzfest! :0
i was there.
haha
anyway
awhh well
first of all shes being extremely immature by trying to make you jealous. shes obviously doing it on purpose, having her friends go up to you and brag about it. the next time she mentions anything about her boyfriend just pretend it doesnt bother you.
try to avoid her as much as possible, just get
her out of your life. maybe even get another girlfriend? haha that might help you forget about her
just have a ton of fun around her so that she'll see you don't care if shes not in your life anymore. once she sees that she wont bother you about the boyfriend anymore and you'll get over her eventually.
:)
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hm well im really sorry... but you should try to let it go.. she doesnt seem to care..
im sorry man
just relax and do stuff that will make you not think about her
read ,go out with your friends..,go on the computer
delete her frrom myspace
so that you dont see her and feel bad (thats ur decision )
hope i helped ha.
bye
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Of course it's hard. and bingo, you know exactly what you should be doing - forgetting about her.
She isn't worthy of your time any more.
You also shouldn't bother going on her Bebo profile. You need to cut her out of your life completely. Even if you see her around, don't bother giving her your time. Ignore her.
That's the first step of getting over a break up. By cutting them completely out of your life. Only when you're over it should you ever consider being friends if that is what both of you want. (when everything dies down of course).
She's playing a nasty trick. Fair enough if she has a new boyfriend, but bragging and making you feel low is just plain unnecessary.
She's obviously trying to make you jealous. and she is succeeding. She probably knows it's really getting to you.
Step number 2 is to not show you are annoyed and upset etc. Don't give her or her friends etc a reaction. When she sees you aren't fussed about her "great" new boyfriend, she'll probably get bored of putting you down.
Another thing you need to remember is time heals everything. Give it a few weeks/months and everyone who has been through this will guarantee you will feel better about it later on.
Try and see your friends as much as possible and do things to keep you occupied.
What you're going through at the moment is a really horrible feeling, but I promise it will get better.
Break ups happen for a reason.
You will do better than her - even if you don't think you will for the time being.
Good things come to those who wait.
Best of luck. and I hope you feel better about it soon.
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