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this probably doesn't mean anything
there's this kid that i work with and he pretty much ignores new people and i'm new, well 2 months. we never really talk and if we do it's only because i have to tell him to get me something or vice versa. its always just a one way conversation though. today he screwed up one of my orders (he's the fry cook of the custard stand i work at) and he made extra of something and when i told him i didn't need it he said "i hate you." he's the type of person that is mean but funny and probably isn't really truly a mean person but because im new and i know he doesn't like new people i don't know what to think of it. at the moment i just laughed at him after he said it and walked away. would you guys say he was joking or no?
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Yeah he was joking why would he hate you if you were just trying to help,people like him joke a lot from what you wrote,so that's good you didn't take it personnal,it's better to keep the peace especially if you too are working together.
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Well I'd say your co-worker sounds like a real asswhole and I don't think it has anything to do with you being new....two weeks is new,two months is not....you've been there for a good while now and it seems like you shouldn't be so concerned about when he's gonna finally speak because maybe he can see that you want some words out of him and now he's just gonna f*uck with you and not give them with the excuse of "I dnt like new people".....believe me once you get to kno him you'll see he's an asswhole and then you'll be wishing you never spoke to him in the first place.....and as for that little joke about I hate you...that was just a part of him f*cking with you,because aparently he see's how eager you are to want some words from him so basically like the asswhole he is....he gave you some words,to think about....the best way to deal with a person like that is just to forget about them....believe me once you stop making yourself so obviuos like the asswhole he is he'll come around.....
Well I hope I helped...god bless and goodluck from your new friend/advicer........jamie
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