Hi i was wondering im a guy and i tried anal sex before and used a dildo.(and i used alot of lube) but it still kinda hurt and felt uncomfortable.how come it dont feel good for guys but all girls seem to like it?
I say 'can' because not every guy enjoys penetration. Some others require more time to get used to it, and it might be something they only feel like on a small number of occasions. This can also be influenced by how turned on you feel, if you are alone or with a partner, your confidence, etc.
Even if you decide this isn't for you, great for you that you tried it in the first place. Exploring what you enjoy (and discover you don't) can lead to a richer and more satifying sex life in the future! [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
jamiehelpsyou answered Tuesday September 4 2007, 1:31 pm: Well it seems like,well you know what I just want to ask you....did you dildo yourself in the anal or did someone else do it for you...this is very important because if someone else did it maybe you were uncomfortable with this person or you could of been feeling alittle shy...maybe if you did it with someone you were very attracted to or liked a lot you would feel differently...or maybe it was your first time and you were feeling alittle tense...if you were tense doing something like that well of course its gonna hurt like hell...but if you try it agan next time relax and take deep breaths....or if you were doing it yourself try to be more comfortable and confident in what you are doing.... [ jamiehelpsyou's advice column | Ask jamiehelpsyou A Question ]
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