SinDelle answered Saturday September 1 2007, 8:46 pm: I had this exact problem. I had a boyfriend who had a 10 inch penis when I was younger. And I was also afraid.
Try this: tell her that she can get on top, that way SHE can control how far it goes in and how much. That way, if it hurts, she can adjust accordingly. Be gentle. Be easy.
Women's vaginas are just basically a pocket of nerves and muscles and they do adjust to accomodate a man's penis if the woman is with the same guy for awhile but it takes awhile. It'll never adjust if you don't have sex at all. Above all, be gentle and understanding. If you hurt her, chances are she's not going to want to attempt it again.
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KxAxTxIxE answered Saturday September 1 2007, 3:06 pm: you can't change the size of your penis. There's nothing you can do excetp respect that she doesn't want to do it with you. Maybe she'll change her mind soon, she probably will eventually if you are serious enough, and if she does just take it easy on her, don't go crazy. [ KxAxTxIxE's advice column | Ask KxAxTxIxE A Question ]
dancedance42 answered Saturday September 1 2007, 3:01 pm: What can you do?
Respect her opinion for now, and don't push having sex. Tell her that you'll go slow, and stop if shes in that much pain.
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