they all are like in differnt groups and when i hang ou with them im like hte follower and thye act like im not there and i hate it ive been walkignaround the school alone at lunch becuase all of my friends im like followers and one of my friend she is going and gwetting a ride from scotty to go eat and i cant go because there isnt ebnough room i nthe car and she is like in another grade than me and i cant even fund htem at lunch they just leave and they act like im not there to i hate it i even try to like talk and stuff and like im still liek a follower and they act like im not there i need help because i missed junir high i had friends but now they have there sisters that are in older than htem and stuff i juast hate it and my older sister doesnt go to my highschool she got adopted i just feel bad and i feel like i dotn even belong in that school and everybody woudlnt care if i like never went to aschool because thye act like im like invisible they m,ight talk like once to me saying that was funny or something then they turn back around and im like all behind them by my self trying to walk fast and when i like walk with them i get back because all of the people
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? IThasJUSTbegun answered Thursday August 30 2007, 11:54 pm: Believe me I KNOW EXACTLY what you are going through and it is really really hard. But what i did was i just talked to them about it, i didnt do it in person because well i'm a coward and i express my feelings better in a note or like on myspace or something so i messeged them telling them exactly how i felt, and like ove he nex couple of days i became much much closer to them and they accepted me. I know it might be hard to talk to them, but like, think about how you feel right now? You hate it, and once you talk to them, they could actually make you feel better and not make you feel like a follower and stuff.
so just try and talk to them, either in person, a note, myspace, anything.
and i know exactly how you feel so if you ever want to talk about it here is my myspace
totallyxrad answered Wednesday August 29 2007, 5:10 pm: your 'friends' dont sound like real friends to me if they are ignoring you and stuff. try being more outgoing and talking to people that you havnt talked to before. because, if your friends are just going to act the way they are then you dont need to waste your time on them. i know its hard but you have to face the facts. im sure you will find better, more exciting friends that dont blow you off. hope i help.
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