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Im depressed but i have the best friends


Question Posted Sunday August 26 2007, 1:05 am

This whole summer i hung out with 5 people. I LOVE THEM!! THERE MY LIFE!! THERE AMMAAZZIINGG!! now summers over everyone is home and i wen ton town and saw my EX-FRIENDS. they all looke dlike they were having so much fun wth each other and i was like embarresed to be seen. like i ahte when people see me because wer not friends anymore. and i was so jelous that they were with everyone and all i had was like 4 friends. i have the best friends in thr world. why am i so depresssed. what can i do??

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kc answered Sunday August 26 2007, 11:55 pm:
WOW, life story right here.

I hung out with the same 4 people all summer, and I can honestly say it's been the best time of my life so far.

Your old friends are Ex friends odviously for some reason or another, and you shouldn't have to worry about what they are doing. You have your new friends whom you seem to care about a lot. It's like those questions you are asked where it is like "Would you rather have 10 aquantences, or 2 best friends?" Best friends are those kind of people where it's like, I have what I need, and need what I have. Your other friends could be having fun, but you never know what goes on behind the scenes.

Sick with your real friends, don't forget the good times. You don't have to snub your old friends, try and be nice to them.

Treasure what you have.

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IThasJUSTbegun answered Sunday August 26 2007, 8:07 pm:
I only hang out with a few friends also, sometimes its just better to have a few close friends anyways, less drama. And as long as you have fun its okay, who cares about you're old friends, you have amazing friends now, so its all good.

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JSoccorso28 answered Sunday August 26 2007, 7:21 pm:
Who cares what your ex-friends think about you. They sound mean and you arn't friends with them. I would try to stay away from them incase they cause trouble though. Just stick with your true friends and have fun! Hope this helps

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jewishgurli91 answered Sunday August 26 2007, 7:14 pm:
you can be happy that you have the four best friends in the world. Your ex friends sound mean and whatever for ditching you im guessing that they wont be friends by the time you graduate and you'll be glad you got out of it quick and made some real friends.
i totally know how you feel though, when i see these four girls that i used to be bestfriends with. i go hide and dont want them to see me. but i think that next time when you see them you should go up to them casually and say hey how are you, whats going on? etc. it will see that your not lost without them. They want you to be lost without them they dont want you to make new friends and they want you to want to still be friends with them, if you've showed them that you've moved on then its like defeating them its showing them that you dont need th em to be happy and it will make you feel a ton better
hope that helped
-mari :D

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Matt answered Sunday August 26 2007, 7:12 pm:
Realize that you're lucky to have the 4 or 5 good friends that you have.

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