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E-mail: JSoccorso28@aim.com
Gender: Male
Location: Massachusetts
Age: 13
AIM: JSoccorso28
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I've been wanting to ask this question for a while now, but i just didn't know how to put it and not sound racist. I'll try to make it as short as possible.
I'm 15/f. I'm hispanic and so are most of the people in my community, as well as african american. When my friends and I go to the mall it's pretty diverse, but there are a lot of white people. Not to kiss ass, but the girls look like dolls, even without makeup, and the guys, ughh, as if they had been chiseled by God himself.
But here's the problem: they only date other white people! i'm not conceited, but i am NOT ugly, or indecent or dirty-looking at all, and i know people like me and my friends have bad reputations amongst them, but are they really SO unattracted to us? am i really THAT repelling? Or is it that they're racist, or shy and not at all as outgoing as hispanic men. They [the men] can't even look us in the eye for more than a second.
Now again, im NOT racist, im just really curious about this. i've never had a caucassian boyfriend, and i dont think i ever will,and that's peachy because hispanics are just as cute, but i just need to know why, and what is it that they think about me when they see me. Do they need ME to make the first move or what?! Thnx in advance for your consideration... (link)
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It doesn't mean that there unattracted to hispanic people but maybe that they arn't interested in you. If you keep trying to find guys I'm sure you'll find somebody that will like you. Don't worry just keep trying. Hope this helped.
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This whole summer i hung out with 5 people. I LOVE THEM!! THERE MY LIFE!! THERE AMMAAZZIINGG!! now summers over everyone is home and i wen ton town and saw my EX-FRIENDS. they all looke dlike they were having so much fun wth each other and i was like embarresed to be seen. like i ahte when people see me because wer not friends anymore. and i was so jelous that they were with everyone and all i had was like 4 friends. i have the best friends in thr world. why am i so depresssed. what can i do?? (link)
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Who cares what your ex-friends think about you. They sound mean and you arn't friends with them. I would try to stay away from them incase they cause trouble though. Just stick with your true friends and have fun! Hope this helps
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man i have a best friend she has always been there for me she helped me when my girl friend died in a car reck and helped iv alway have loved her and now im looking for a new girl friend and i ccome 2 find that i relly love her she has always been there for me and she is very beutiful but she is my best friend and she says im like a brother 2 her (link)
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If you think you love her, you should definately ask her about the way she feels and tell her how you feel. You should ask her out if she likes you as much as you like her. If it doesn't work out you can go back to being great friends. Hope this helps!
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ok well im in 9th grade.! and it seems like alot of my friends have done some/more sexual things than i have done!!.... all i have done it make out and stuff.. but i refuse to give head b.c i think its dirty.!! 1st am i the only not doing it??/ and 2nd i wouldnt mind going a little farther but not sex how do i make it known that i want to do that with out sounding like a slut!!???????????? plz help me..!!!! (link)
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Don't do anything your not comfortable doing! Your not weird, some people havn't done it at all so just calm down and the time will come when its right
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this is a question for guys but girls can answer to
well i go to ccd every summer and there is this really cute guy in my class. Anyways sometimes he looks at me, and when there is a small joke and when i smile he always seems to look at me and smile. he looks at me every now and then and i do the same, and he sat next to me once, and then at the end of class he stood right next to me and it seemed that he was either talking to me or himself. Anyway does this guy like me, want to be my friend, or all of this is just nothing really?
13/f and he seems really popular and knows alot of prettier girls then me so why the hell would he be intrested in me?
thanks (link)
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I'd say he either really likes you or want to be a friend. My best bet is he wants to be your friend. If you ever get a chance just sit down and get to know him. Hope this helps!
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so theres this guy and we've been getting close but my friend said that he wants to hook up with me. or like he wanted to the last time he saw me or whatever. and like its not like i dont want to, its just i havent ever done it before. (just like make out) and so i dont know if i should because i might be bad at it and im scared... help please? (link)
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Boys don't really care if your good at it...There the ones scared....They only care if you do it and thats it.
Hope this helps!
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Heres the deal, I'm 18 and I've never been on a date or kissed a boy. (I know, wow, Never?!?! At 18?!?!) I'm going to be going on my first date soon. I feel so awkward about the fact that I've never dated before, especially since he has. I just want to know, you know, since I'm not in middle school it's not like some hanging out with a friend type of thing. But I've never been able to do that part to get used to dating. And I'm not going to be like, talking about some big forever relationship either. What do we talk about? Should I be like, hanging out, having fun, talking about nothing important. Or like asking him questions about himself or something. Or if I just try to go with whatever come will it be awkward at some point? Just give me some general first date tips I guess so I do feel so nervous about going into it, please. (link)
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You HAVE to tell him its your first date. You can't be embarrased to tell him. If he likes you so much, he won't care if your still 18 and havn't had a date. It will be alot easier on you and I'm sure he'll ask you questions. Just answer his questions and maybe you'll get an idea to talk about from his questions! Good Luck!
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ok well i always have these sweat marks on my shirts in my underarm area! n i dont stink but it always happens i use deoderant (dove) but it doesnt help with it..??!!!!! i dont know what to do about it school starts on monday and its imbarrassing to have!! any time i raise my arm you can see it.!!!! how can you get rid of it or does anyone no what i can use?!!!! please help!!!!! (link)
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Just try different deoderants and if that doesnt work then try what the person below me said and if that doesnt work then wear shirts that blend in with it
hope this helps
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would a guy be completely grossed out and turned off if he's hooking up with someone, and when he goes to finger her, she's super wet? haha is that normal? mmk thanks so much :] (link)
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I wouldn't be. lol
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okay will this is mainly a question for guys but girls can answer to
i have 2 quests
1. what attracts guys? ex. do they like innocent, or crazy? what kind of girls do skaterdudes like?
2.how do you know if a guys likes you?
thankss:) (link)
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This is what I do when I like someone...
I laugh at any joke they say, even if i dont get it or think its funny.
I look at them alot but when they look at me i look away.
And last, I always try to show up or show off whenever they are around.
Hope this helps!
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I got my hair done today and I love it! I came home and my dad said I looked like a gorrilla! Now i feel horrible what if the kids at school think that too? (link)
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As long as you like it then I would keep it. Who cares what other people think. Don't change for other people only for yourself. (I'm sure your dad was kidding. If you don't believe me ask him himself.)
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so i have a problem. i can never hold a conversation with a guy wheni talk to them on aim. it seems like we run outta things ot talk aobut. we go throught he suaul whats up and everything and then we just kinda fade out.
how do i keep the conversations going.??
any adivce is appreciated! (link)
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I'm a boy and these are the ways some girls keep conversations with me...
Saying So0o0o0o0o0o0oooo
Asking how my day was
Asking what I did today
or they just ask who I am talking to
Hope this helps!
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